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Just been having a chat with someone about this and wondered if anyone has experienced it?? What happened and how did you deal with it??

I think I have and will watch this .............................

Only on here, and I haven't seen her for ages.. she must be hiding more effectively lol (sorry, I know its a serious subject)

Yes I have had one and been one LOL

A very long time ago when I was at school, my Dad dealt with it. Gwynne

now on then paul who ?............................... Butterfly who did you stalk ???????

Only joshing with ya Hayley I am in a strange mood tonight....LOL

I don't want one! Want to know how my friend can get rid of one! What people have done etc..

Yes. A couple of years ago. Everywhere I was he seemed to 'pop up'. When he started coming to my work, I'd had enough then, I lost it with him, and he seemed to stop. Not seen him since. Gem:)))

Gem, were you not scared confronting him face to face?

That was Sue Smith Hayley, all light hearted stuff...

No, I knew him. I was just fed up of seeing him. Enough was enough and he had to stop.

I unwittingly became a stalker about 25 years ago. Knew ex was seeing someone else, but he denied it vigorously. Followed him night after night until one night saw him with the 'other' woman ... the same woman he dumped to go out with me ... He actually did finish that relationship, and we sorted things out ... but I dumped him at the Alter in front of his family and friends a few years later. A woman scorned ... Elaine ;-)

Glad you got rid of him Gem. Would give me the creeps if someone was following me around!

Mags, yes I did have a stalker many years ago. It was a guy from the company I worked at. He used to follow me to the bus at night, get on (even thou his car was in company parking). Would get off the bus when I did and follow me home. Only thing is I caught on right away and got off the bus at the local mall and with quick manouvering ditched him in one of the stores and made it the extra blocks home without him following. He did this for several weeks off and on. Course I told OH what was going on and reported it to his boss. OH and boss both kept an eye but course took several more weeks as he knew he was being watched. OH started picking me up at work and one night stalker didn't know OH was there and started to follow me so OH pretended he was going to run him over with the car, mind just to scare him. Boss saw the whole thing and fired him the next day. To end the story he left Canada and moved to Florida, several months later we heard he was arrested for murdering a girl in a motel. That left a scar and affected me for a long time. Debs

Well Elaine, you certainly got your revenge there! Fair play to you!

I had one this year... videoed me (denied this under oath in court)and had me followed and kept ringing and threatening... So I got a phone tape recorder and waited... he admitted everything he had done on this tape and I took it to the police as he threatened my life..... (really wouldn't have stood a chance cos I would have flattened him) but... The police took it very seriously and he has now got a 12 month harrassment order against him...and done for purgery.... if he does anything he will be arrested and will get a prison sentence according to the courts... The law sometimes works in our favour!! Anne :)))

Not that I know of lol. I did have a dirty phone call once. I had been in the garden, tattie jeans and wellies on and could not understand why anyone would suggest the things he did. I thought it was somebody we knew having a joke, till he started talking filthy to me. That was after I told him i was wearing tartan knickers with lace round the knees lol. Marion

OMG Debs, that is terrifying! You just never know do you! Glad you managed to get rid of him!

God Debs that is really bad! Glad he got fired!