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What about a tree?

I'm poking my nose in here a bit as I haven't been on the boards for ages. Jennifer, your message struck a chord because when my brother died I couldn't decide what to put on my message in the local newspaper. I came across this Quote that I had saved in a book............. We buried his hands but not his good works. We buried his heart but not his love. Hope this helps.

I was a a Humanist funeral for a friend today and there were some readings of poems. Having read this thread I thought I'd have a look at what could turn up if I searched on the internet for suitable quotes and poems. This site seems to have a number of ones which I've heard used and also some new ones I think might be a comfort. (Remove brackets) http://www.memories-are-forever.org(/)funeral(/)poemsquotes(.)htm Sue

Jess, I was thinking just that. A young tree, what a lovely memorial for Stephen. Jennifer, have you had any thoughts on this? I think it'd be a lovely way to remember Stephen, seeing it grow. x

Hello Jennifer xxx .... tis very difficult choosing the right words for your son, your family and yourself. There are some beautiful moving verses amongst the replies ... hope you find one that is relevant to you and your family very soon.... Has you know my son died in 2001 and within 7 months knew his dad had terminal cancer .... bought the a second plot immediately (they are now toe to toe) we let my son's children choose inscription for their dad's headstone and we has a family chose my husbands .... i have just returned from cemetary offices and have got the name of the person i should ask permission off to place a memorial bench seat .... after speaking with her i am optomistic. Take care love thinking of you (((((((hugs))))) Patricia xxx

I have already planted a miniture apple tree for Stephen, and when I pick the apples I will think of Stephen.

Thanks everybody for your lovely words and ideas. God Bless you all.

I certainly like the idea about naming a Star xxxx a beautiful idea x Elaine ;-)