General Chat

I wonder if anyone on here, would admit to it if they did :)

In the paper recently Jamie Oliver's wife admitted to checking his e mails regularly, and he knows she does it.

We have separate computers, I never look at his e mails, even though I could when he's out, we don't open each other's mail either
He only reads my e mails when I forward something to him. He doesn't text.

Relationships can be rebuilt Roy and not all go on to have further affairs, it doesn't do to generalise.

l do weekly atleast......:)))

Not me...lol his are all secure as am I emotionally :-D

I have to say though that if anyone is stupid enough to have evidence in their emails or on their phone they deserve to be caught and suffer the consequences :-P

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Yes Lynda ,
I do think anyone on here who reads their partners emails etc would admit to it. Justified as having nothing to hide. :-S

I'm not the slightest bit interested in reading his e-mails. They're mostly about cricket anyway, as being the secretary of a cricket club that occupies most of his time. Also means no time for being unfaithful! Mind you, that boy knows which side his bread is buttered - he wouldn't dare :-D

Anyone who resorts to that sort of thing must be very Insecure in their relationship.

Simple answer to make sure no spying, is to change your passwords and don't tell anyone!

I know for a fact that wife of Shrimp doesn't know the keycode to my mobile and as for the computer, well, she would take five minutes to find out where the on/off switch was!

@ Wend
Phew :-D
signed Munnie Penny

Vic can't text so l sort his text messages delete etc and he does'nt have an email address, l do all that and he reads them, he can read them when ever he wants. l trust him implicitly and visa versa.

jude :-)

AnninGlos, "it doesn't do to generalise"

Why?

If it doesn't do to generalise then the opposite would be to quote a specific?

This is a public forum and quoting specifics would/could be inappropriate when taking the nature of this thread in to account

If you want to make a statement referring to my post based on you thinking i am generalising thats fine but i find the statement/comment "it doesn't do to" rather patronising

Truth is everybody generalises one way or another

Roy

Munnie Penny - neither shaken nor stirred :-P

Signed Pussy Galore :-D

:-0 :-0 :-0
How on earth did they get away with that? LOL

Roy I am not going to enter into an argument with you because I get the impression you don't like to be wrong. And you can be pedantic. But your comment:-

"yes trust can be built up again but that's not to say that another affair will not happen in the future and lessons learned first time round makes it easier to hide the signs of an affair at a later date?"

Is insinuating that, generally speaking, it is likely that another affair will happen in the future. All I am saying is that comes over as fact and is not necessarily true.

BIKE SHED!!! :-D :-D :-D

It's not about being rite or wrong,

To be honest i could not care less what impression you or anyone else have of me what you think is up to you

If you want to interpret what i post in the way you do that is also up to you but it doesn't make your interpretation correct so may be it could be you that doesn't like to be wrong

I can be wrong and don't mind admitting it,

you can come back as often as you like with quote after quote but my opinion is my opinion and just as valid as yours

you say you don't want to enter into an argument

then Don't


Roy

Are ye opening a book, Island.

Julia in Derbyshire

i know both my partner passwords for his emails i dont go in to his or he mine unless he needs a password or something ...i dont check his phone either ....
we trust each other and have done for the last 26 yrs .....

i know both my partner passwords for his emails i dont go in to his or he mine unless he needs a password or something ...i dont check his phone either ....
we trust each other and have done for the last 26 yrs .....

OH doesn't use the PC I do all his online banking etc. BUT no way would I open any of his postal mail even when its obviously junk mail .