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Nope.

No point - if he was going to "fool around" he woudn't be stupid enough to keep incriminating texts or emails. I also like to think he'd have to good manners not to let me find out.

Gwynne

When I first met my OH,I think I would have,
but then there were no mobile phones,and we didnt have a computer.lol!!!!!!!!
In the beginning of any relationship,there is no trust,although you know yourself you would be faithfull,you dont know about the other person.
Sometimes you couldnt believe that you could be so lucky to have someone to love you totally.
I wouldnt now check his phone or pc,I have no need to,
if we were younger,I might. :-D :-D

I just pleaded "Not guilty".

What Smiley Faces and Winks, :-D :-D :-D,the last time I had to do that (Get some one to remove their tights) her husband helped while I was rumaging under the bonnet,and there was a great amount of laughter going on in the back of the car. ;-) ;-)

Merlin, I think you should re-phrase your last post. :-D

:-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D ;-) ;-) ;-)

That's your version Merlin, let's see what Brian has to say for himself. LOLOL

Julia in Derbyshire

Now then Julia, he was only taking precautions against a broken Fan Belt.(They,re very useful if it breaks) and great fun removing them if you need one in a hurry. :-D :-D :-D :-D ;-)

Oooer Brian, didn't know you were into Ladies Tights. Well, takes all sorts LOLOL

Julia in Derbyshire

Absolutely, there is nothing to hide.
Mind you, the time I came home from a business trip with a pair of ladies tights in my bag did cause a bit of friction !

I love and trust my fella, but have no interest in reading his e-mails or his post (especially the bills!) We also have separate bank accounts, debit and credit cards.

Having said that, I don't think Brian is spying/checking or jealous - they just do things differently, which is their business.

Surely though, Piglets Pal, If you love each other, there is no need to stray, or give the impression of straying, thus negating the need to snoop in the first place.
Just an observation.

Julia in Derbyshire

Brian, I agree with you but their is a difference between love/ trust in that context

If you love and trust your partner then their should be no need to spy/check on their messages/emails

spying or checking messages in this way certanly indicates a lack of trust and or jealousy

Roy

No comment!!!

Boy are we odd, judging by the comments on here.
We have one email account; joint bank accounts; use one credit card and whover gets the post off the mat opens it, regardless of whom it is addressed to.
It's called love and trust.

We share one e- mail address only.
I can tell when messages are for him and don't open them.

I never open his snail mail either and would be annoyed if he opened mine.

Gwyn

forgot to say - we both have computers.

Some emails for OH come to my computer. I have no idea what emails he gets on his. I know his password, but have never looked at his emails.

Reading his e-mails might indicate some degree of interest.

He doesn't let me see his bank statements,Couldn't stand the interogation. 'Why did you spend all that?' 'You could have bought it cheaper than that?' Where did that two bob go?'

Vic has just received a text message...l opened it and it reads......

"Do you need CASH B4 payday? £400 depostited in your account TODAY ! Visit .......blah de blah....

Bless him thats all he gets in his in box....lol

jude ;-)

Showed the article to OH before he went to work..his thoughts......

The bloke should buy a pay as you go and not tell her about it then he can speak to who he likes.

Raised my eyebrows at him and he said ...well if you were phoning up my friends or work colleagues and behaving like a bunny boiler it'd be either that or leave.

He's got a point I guess lol x