General Chat

mother in law Christmas wishes.You can wish her whatever else though.My 19 year old daughter set up home 30 miles away with her boyfriend in August.Both got jobs and we paid the deposit and 3 months rent up front to start them offThey have never argued in the two and a half years they have been together.Mother in Law moved herself in on the 5th of november claiming boyfriends step dad beat her up.She took over the flat and paid to have all her furniture in daughters flat paid a locksmith to change the locks and chucked daughters toiletries in the bin and put hers out.I could go on.Daughter confronted her on sat and told her to leave and she refused.Called the police and they said they cant do nothing but take daughter away from her.Her boyfriend rang her yesterday and told her he has packed up all her stuff and its by the door when she collects it.She has now lost her job.The plot thickens.Step dad has now moved in as he could not pay his rent so now they are all cosy in daughters flat and her boyfriend is too scared of his stepdad to have stopped it happening.I know what i want to wish her. Annie

Hi Annie, it doesn't sound good does it.
If it is a rented property, whose name is the tenancy agreement in?
Hope your daughter is OK.

Rosalind

Whew that's awful what a witch, but if her boyfriend is moving her out instead of his mother I would say she's better off with him.
Why not ask CAB for some advice??

sounds like she is better off without the spineless toad!

The question is, whose name is the tenancy in? If it is yours I would get it cancelled. Sounds as if your daughter is better off without the family, but it is hard for her as they have been together a wile. what an awful family.

Ann
Glos

Your daughter could tell the landlord that she has had squatters move in - that might do something! In any event make moves to change the tenancy if it's in your daughter's name.

Honestly though, what an old bag! Your daughter may be well away from the family. Bless her.

Jill

Tenancy is joint with her boyfriend.Daughter is on phone now to solicitor. Annie

There should be certain formalities like notifying your daughters change of address for community tax, and possibly writing to the landlord . Are both their names on the agreement ?
How did they pay their bills?
Make sure she's not liable for any debts.
And good riddance to the lot of them, she's lucky to have a good Mum.

Good luck to her Annie, he is definitely in breach of the agreement. No squatters rights as he allowed his parents to move in. You are not allowed to change the locks without prior agreement with the landlord.
She is better off without him, although she might not see this at the moment, she is young and will get over it.

Rosalind

with respect...........

"Mother in Law "
doesnt apply here, if they are NOT married?

but the plot apples to a young lady we know......her Mother in Law had a house that she allowed them to live in, marriage went sour and they were chucked out..........HE went back to mummy,
and the girl and her baby were chucked out!


Bob

Mother out law then Bob lol

Annie, have pm'd you. Good luck
Lizxx

She was lucky to find out their true colours before things got deeper. Wonder what happened with the job, if the old bag had been causing trouble there too. Good riddance to them

I hope she got good advice from the solicitor. as somebody said, surely they can't just change the locks. has she informed the Landlord she is no longer responsible for the rent?

ann
glos

We have got all the advice but not acted on it yet.We have to meet with the police at 8pm tonight to go in and get all her stuff out.They dont know.I had a text from Evil today to say she will give me back the deposit when my daughter takes her name off of the tenancy.Who does she think she is i do not know but i have totaly ignored the text. Annie

Good luck with getting your daughters stuff back. Evil can't call the shots over who is on the tenancy agreement. The original agreement was with your daughter her boyfriend and the landlord. Have you been in touch with the landlord?

Rosalind

Landlord tomorrow.We had to get daughters stuff out first before we did anything.Community tax tomorrow tele licence cancelled tomorrow.not telling them they can have the huge bill when it catches up.What sickens me is daughter bought his christmas pressie last week and let him have it as he badgered her so she said she would have to get him something small for xmas day.Never mind she is back with us and as his mum says we are a deranged family and i am cuckoo.Not sure of cuckoo what she means but i am not in any other persons nest. She is The fun starts later today. Annie

Good luck Annie, lots to do but it will all come back and bite those folk on the bum for sure. Can your daugher not take back the Christmas present and sell it on gumtree or ebay?
I am sure once the landlord finds the mother and stepfather aren't legal tenants and their track record, he won't want them there so the son will have to carry on alone as tenant with them staying as guests, if landlord allows. Otherwise he can probably get rid of the son too as he has abused his tenancy agreement.

Keep us posted. Would love to be a fly on the wall!
I wonder if the evil witch has played this game before in various ways?

Lizx

Hope it all goes well today Annie, sounds like you got your daughters stuff OK. With any luck he will choke on the present.
You almost think the boyfriend planned this as a means of funding his parents somewhere else to live.

Rosalind

Annie, how did things go today, have you got it sorted? I hope so.

Ann
Glos

Good luck Annie, how utterly horrid!!!

I hope your lass is ok,

Caz xxx