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Good news Annie, hope your daughter and her friends enjoyed their night out and she won't be sucked in to take the boyfriend back, altho I do feel a bit sorry for him too, with a mother like that what chance does he have of a normal life. She has now lost him his home and his girlfriend and he will probably, if working, be the one to have to lost any money he put into the flat and find money to get them a new place. He should look for a room in a shared house where she can't move in and leave her to get on with it.

Lizx

Result!

Well done to you and your daughter!

She's definitely better off without him and that evil mother of his!

Jill

Boyfriend has probably been manipulated and dumped upon all his life by the evil old trout. I expect he had hoped he was finally escaping it at last. She is probably exerting huge psychological pressure on him,as she always has,he thinks that is normal.

As for the woman's partner being a wife beater. You have hardly met her and you wouldn't mind giving her a swift upper cut I am sure.He lives with her.

Well Karma is a biatch isn't it?

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I'm very pleased that you brought your daughter up to be a strong woman who would stand up for herself.

It will hurt, but his betrayal will mean that she will heal so much quicker. Now she can get on with having the fun she deserves at her age. A good man will come along in time.

Well had a phone call a little while ago and they all have to be out of the flat tomorrow.Her ex boyfriend has been ringing her and been very nice.Think he was too thick to see what was going on.Daughter has 2 friends staying over tonight.They are all off night clubbing so my house is buzzing as they are all getting ready now.Think she is very hurt but she is getting on with her life. Annie

Well done your girl, hope this is the end of all the aggro, and she can get on with her life I will be praying that she will have reason to be happy once again....you to....time for some peace in your lives.. very best wishes to you all....

Jean x

Gosh, well done Annie. Good luck for your daughter in the future, that she may meet a chap who respects her and her family better than the last one.

What an absolute nightmare of a "mil" she sounds. Putting up Christmas decorations as well if you please, unbelievable.

Your daughter is well and truly well out of it.

Tina x

brilliant - absolutely brilliant - let's hope they are all out in the cold with nowhere to live, and as for that spineless wimp of a boyfriend, I hope his wotsits drop off in the cold!!!! and as for his evil mother - well words fail me on that one!!

Just read this thread all the way through - again- , can i just say well done Annie for sticking up for yourself and your daughter.

I hope things will turn out for the best for you all, take care and good luck, keep us posted as to what happens to the dragon xxx

Well done Annie, and bet your daughter felt good chucking her stuff about for a change.

I don't think they will be considered homeless as they weren't supposed to be there and seemed to have voluntarily left their previous place to move in with son.

Good luck to your girl. Will be in touch later.

Lizx

Oh well done Annie, it is so good to see bullies beaten. I hope they get thrown out quickly. Although i suppose they will then claim they are homeless and will be re-housed. I am pleased that your daughter has got all her possessions back. Sad he relationship broke up but she truly is better off away from him and his awful family.

Ann
Glos

Well,the television licence was canceled yesterday and the community tax.We did not bring her stuff back the other night as the police could not make it.We went last night although the police could not make it we phoned them when we got there as emergency.Daughter put her key in the lock and she had changed the locks again.Police pushed it in.Only she was in all cosy.Smoking in the living room(in tenancy no smoking)She told daughter she had packed up all her stuff and not her son.She even had daughters washing machine on.My eldest daughter stopped that and threw all the clothes on the floor dripping wet.Chucked all her stuff out of the fridge freezer and left it on the side.My daughter went through all her stuff and she kept asking the police to stop her.They said they cant as she should not be there.Evil told me she had a place to move into in 2 days time????????Dont think so as she had all her christmas decorations up.Then when we took washing machine she said she had one being delivered next tuesday.Told her not at this address she wont.She got on the phone to her big man hubby (woman beater) and her son that never called to see us.We were there over a hour and they never turned up.On way home my daughter phone landlord and he went berserk about her son breaking the tenancy agreement(she had also dismantled the smoke alarm)changing the locks again and packing my daughters stuff up.He said he was going straight to court this morning for an eviction. Annie

Well what a spineless crettin the boyfriend or,, I hope ex boyfriend is!!
Your daughter is definately better off without him although I can imagine how she is feelin at the moment!

Makes you wonder if it wasnt all planned really doesnt it!!!!!!!!!!!

Give your daughter my best wishes

Bev x

Good luck Annie, how utterly horrid!!!

I hope your lass is ok,

Caz xxx

Annie, how did things go today, have you got it sorted? I hope so.

Ann
Glos

Hope it all goes well today Annie, sounds like you got your daughters stuff OK. With any luck he will choke on the present.
You almost think the boyfriend planned this as a means of funding his parents somewhere else to live.

Rosalind

Good luck Annie, lots to do but it will all come back and bite those folk on the bum for sure. Can your daugher not take back the Christmas present and sell it on gumtree or ebay?
I am sure once the landlord finds the mother and stepfather aren't legal tenants and their track record, he won't want them there so the son will have to carry on alone as tenant with them staying as guests, if landlord allows. Otherwise he can probably get rid of the son too as he has abused his tenancy agreement.

Keep us posted. Would love to be a fly on the wall!
I wonder if the evil witch has played this game before in various ways?

Lizx

Landlord tomorrow.We had to get daughters stuff out first before we did anything.Community tax tomorrow tele licence cancelled tomorrow.not telling them they can have the huge bill when it catches up.What sickens me is daughter bought his christmas pressie last week and let him have it as he badgered her so she said she would have to get him something small for xmas day.Never mind she is back with us and as his mum says we are a deranged family and i am cuckoo.Not sure of cuckoo what she means but i am not in any other persons nest. She is The fun starts later today. Annie

Good luck with getting your daughters stuff back. Evil can't call the shots over who is on the tenancy agreement. The original agreement was with your daughter her boyfriend and the landlord. Have you been in touch with the landlord?

Rosalind

We have got all the advice but not acted on it yet.We have to meet with the police at 8pm tonight to go in and get all her stuff out.They dont know.I had a text from Evil today to say she will give me back the deposit when my daughter takes her name off of the tenancy.Who does she think she is i do not know but i have totaly ignored the text. Annie