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IF THE HEADSTONE ON A FAMILY GRAVE

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KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:15

NEEDED TO BE REPLACED

WOULD YOU ASK YOUR DAD TO REPLACE IT OR WOULD YOU PAY TO REPLACE IT YOURSELF

...Julie...

...Julie... Report 2 Jan 2008 15:17

ask for a family whip round if possible

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:18

ITS MY MUMS GRAVE
DADS STILL ALIVE

Carole

Carole Report 2 Jan 2008 15:19

If I wanted it doing I would pay for it

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:21

ITS IN A BAD WAY
GOING TO TRY REPAIR 1ST

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:23

32 years old

♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥

♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥ Report 2 Jan 2008 15:25

I think I would ask him first, then decide.

xx

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:25

she was 47

Bill Cliffe Esq.

Bill Cliffe Esq. Report 2 Jan 2008 15:26

do you have brothers and sisters ...?

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:27

7 lol

...Julie...

...Julie... Report 2 Jan 2008 15:28

maybe ask a stone mason how much to fix it up first at least you know how much I 4rt if you change stone you have to have person who owns that plot permission I own my dads plot and stone mason got one line wrong mum complained and they said I had to give them permission to remove stone that was 5 years ago might of change plus different rules for different places

Bill Cliffe Esq.

Bill Cliffe Esq. Report 2 Jan 2008 15:28

I think you should ask them, then your father and see what the out come is

Clueless

Clueless Report 2 Jan 2008 15:28

I would try repair first
then check with the other members of my family (if they wanted to help out then good) then I'd go ahead and replace it
xx

Ladybird...:)  xx

Ladybird...:) xx Report 2 Jan 2008 15:32

you could ask how they feel about a whip round, cos if you dont and go and do it yourself that cause somthing else.. like why did'nt you ask me... i know cos i have 5 sisters lol
Sorry to hear you lost your mum at such a young age RIP
ann x

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:32

there is room for 3 more in grave

am not in a hurry to go in it myself lol

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 15:35

emails have now been sent to rest of family

...Julie...

...Julie... Report 2 Jan 2008 15:37

always wondered what happends to the plot you have brought dad was cremated and theres room for mum in there but I'm sure I read plot is only ours for 99 years wil have to have a read of it

...Julie...

...Julie... Report 2 Jan 2008 15:58

what do you think will happen to it do you think it will go to granchildren for them to up keep never thought to ask

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 2 Jan 2008 16:24

got 1st email back


looks like dads not paying

Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 2 Jan 2008 17:06

....it depends on the relationship you have with your Dad Keith......if I were you, I would prepare myself to foot the bill, then I would not be disappointed....