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Just want to let you know whats happening! My surgeon left loads of messages for me while I was away and i had to go see him yesterday to book in for my op which he wanted to do on 3rd June.... yes next friday.... aargh!! Well after seeing him yesterday he now wants me to see his colleague and then they will decide what to do as he's concerned about it now.... so I'm off there again tomorrow.... its put me on a downer now as will miss Wakefield, the Kent meet and a friends hen night on the 4th but guess he knows best! The reason i'm hiding now is my mood is defo not Pink and i don't wanna upset anyone!! I signed up for China due to leaving my husband and I wanted something positive to look forward to instead of just the divorce and Gaynor and I chatted and agreed that we would bring something positive from her illness. Now we all (yes everyone of you) worked for nearly a year to achieve the £10,000 and for me to Walk that Wall in China and now its over!!!!!! I miss it and yes I know the Sahara will come soon enough but...... my promise to Gaynor has been achieved and now i am grieving all that has gone! I hope you all understand my absence from the boards and I'll be back soon enough to bore you all silly with tales from china. Love Pink xx

Totally understand sweetheart. Look after yourself and hurry back, we'll all miss you! Please remember I'm always here for you 24/7 Priviledged to be your friend! love becx

Oh mate you have had so much going on for such a long time that if any one deserves a rest its you. Please let us know how the op goes. Will be thinking of you. You take good care of yourself and hope to catch up soon. Lots of Love Jo xx

Pink sorry to hear about you having to have an op, hope all goes well, wishing you a speedy recovery and hope to see you soon back on the boards you will be missed Luv JoJo xxx

Totally understand where you are coming from. Take care Pink and look after yourself. Think positive. Love and hugs Wendy and 'my' Susie xxx

Diana, So sorry to hear about your operation. I hope all goes well. It is no wonder you are on a downer at the moment. Your life has been so focused for the last few months you have not had time to think, or grieve. Now you have achieved much more than you set out to perhaps it is time you had some space to come to terms with all that has happened. I wish you well. Gaynor is not the only star, you are one too. Jean x.

I can understand exactly what you are saying Diana. Take care of yourself get well and come back soon. All good wishes for a speedy recovery from your op. Dianexx

Wishing you lots of love and luck with your op and everything else, don't stay away too long, because of you me and my girls did our first race for life on 15th May... you inspired us! Love kirsty x

please take care of urself u know where we all r if u need us xxxx

Take time out to catch your breath and come back and tell us all about China when your ready. Hope all goes well with the op. Luv & Hugs Jxx

loads of positive thoughts for you, Pink! take time out, take care, :-) Joy

Best of luck with the surgery (cosmetic I think I remember you saying?) Best wishes for a speedy recovery!

pink take care and keep smiling babe xlove val happydays xxx

Pink, I hope everything goes well with your op. wishing you a speedy recovery and that you will be back on the boards soon. love and hugs Sue X

We do understand, it must be a real anticlimax now and you will be missing Gaynor so much more. take care and come back to us soon. love Ann Glos

Take care Diana, and good luck with the op. Please don't lose touch with everyone on here. Love Maggy

Hi Pink, Perfectly understand how you are feeling,unfortunately there is always a danger when we throw ourselves into something to take our mind off something else,as when the excitment is over and we are back to reality it all comes flooding back. And I know that is not the only reason you walked the great wall,it was for Gaynor too and although I haven't spoken to you much on the boards you are a very special lady,so hold your head up high and beat the lows.You should be very proud what you have done.Denise. (hugs) hope you soon feel better. Forgot to say good luck for your op.

i hope your checking back in to read this i told you i hoped someone was there for you near home after gaynor left, you know well be thinking of you as always and waiting here to greet you you take care and i dont know why your having op but hope you are feeling better soon oh and congrats on your achievement youve been through a tough time will be thinking of you you brave lady

Oh Diana, you've done so much to help others less fortunate than yourself. I can appreciate your grieving after all that's happened. However, if I can mention that we have a children's hospice locally - Gaynor Bear will tell you all about it as I'm hoping we can pop in to see the children - and we can tell the children and staff about what you've done. Good luck with the op, and take care you, Glenys x (Group 12 of the Relay; getting impatient lol!)

Hiya Pink Glad to see your back safely :-) My race for life walk went well on Sunday (thanks for my good luck text), I did the 5km in 45 mins, we had a minutes silence to think of everyone we had lost to cancer, I thought of Gaynor and shed a tear and I also had her mentioned on my 'in memory of' badge. Anyway, I'm rambling. Take good care of yourself, you take as much time as you need, youve gone through so much in the last year or so. Hugs Karen x