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He's really not coming back is he? What am I gonna do without him?

Diana, he is there in your heart and thoughts, thats how i find my daddy .........he will always be there ((((HUG)))) Wendy.xxxxx

Diana, Talk to him. He will never leave you. Liz x

oh sweetheart i really dont know what to say. maybe we can do our crying together. love you susie

My heart goes out to you. You are bound to miss your Dad especially as you were so close. Take comfort from the memories, they are precious. Claire x

Its 6 months since I lost my dad and Im a middle aged woman but I am still having a cry every day. It was two years before I could think of my mum without breaking my heart. That awful wave of panic when you realise they really have gone is so so awful. Now I talk to her every day - particularly when Im driving, she was such a confident driver and I hear her telling me what to do. There is nothing we can say or do Di, it take time - but please be assured one day you will talk about him just as if he is still here and you wont need to cry.

Dianne I was once told that as long you remember the person they are always there with you,and I know that you will always remember you Daddy,so he is still there with you. XXXXXX

Diana,I do feel for you.I have just had my dad for dinner and i got very upset.He can hardly walk and shuffles around.This is not my dad and he seems in a lot of pain.Annie x

Hi DIANA, there is nothing more I can say to comfort you. There are times when I still cry for my Dad & he has been on the other side for over twenty years but I know he is close as you will when your grief is not so raw. The grieving process is perfectly natural & if it helps to come on here & talk about it, then do, we are all here for you. Please accept this huge (((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))) Love Vivienne

One of those days love? They will come, quite often too, but you'll be fine. I waved to my mother one day up town. I was on the bus and she was walking towards the bus stop wearing her blue and white jacket. It was not her of course, but that's what it is like. You will see him EVERYWHERE. You'll hear him, so you may as well answer him... I did. god bless Diana... I am also there if you want me. Deanna XXX

Diana I know how you feel----it comes over you like a wave doesn't it?? I still want my Dad to cuddle me and say 'You are the best thing that happened to me'-----but you know he loved you and that's the main thing and I'm sure he is there around you!!!

Diana there are times when I wish my dad was here but he is gone in body not in spirit he will always be a round in my mind and in my heart with all the memories I have with him which are better than being sad think happy times with him that is what I do

One day Diana you will remember him and smile, it wont hurt so badly .....you will still miss him but he will be there for you in a different way. Just now things are raw and new in the most painful way.....give in to these days and cry the tears you need to heal you. On the good days you can do more, expect more, but for a while these days will creep up on you. Be kind to yourself on the bad days, and don't ask too much from yourself, you wont have the energy . Take care XXXXXXX

Diana..No Dad is never coming back hun,he is just left his mark in your heart....When Nan died in January (love of my life she was) i even rang her few times for a month hoping she my answer and it a bad dream.I still find it hard but easier now and gets easier as time goes, i still see her in pics and still talk but she in my heart and know she listening in a way..Hun.. You got good people here and real caring ones too...My heart is with you and if there is a after life i bet Nan is chatting with him and laughing at us..You take care and things will be sorted soon..I promise...Love and hugs.Jay.x.x

Diana it is early days yet you can still shed some tears nobody minds just dont bottle up your grief let it out he is still with you in lots of ways and always will be believe me it does get better take care darling Howiexxxxxx

aww darling he will always be with you xxx((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))). Malc xx

(((hugs))) for you.. Lou xxx

He will always be with you in your heart and in your memory Diana... (((((((((((special hugs))))))))))))))))))) Anne:)))

Oh darling, I so know how you feel I miss my Mum sooo much and I know she's never coming back. It's so hard and no-one else understands. Dean has just seen me writing this and I don't know what he thinks but he's arguing with me. Tears are rolling down my cheeks and I would so love to have a hug from Mum. I can't so here's a hug for you (((((((((HUG))))))) Love you babe XXXXX

Diana, One day at a time sweetheart.. Your dad will always be with you! Grayxxxx