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Unknown Report 29 Aug 2006 19:23

If I regretted it, I'd change it back. I've got a friend who regularly changed back to her maiden name after her divorce, but is now so friendly with her ex that she's changed it back. But I think her married name goes better with her first name and is slightly more exotic (he's Spanish). nell

Debby

Debby Report 29 Aug 2006 20:01

No - I wasn't keen on my maiden name - was teased at school - I like it now because it's unusual. I wasn't keen on my first husbands name either. Much prefer my surname now - it's not as unusual. I still have to spell my surname over the phone etc and have had to with all 3. Debby

Lynda

Lynda Report 29 Aug 2006 20:04

My son lives in Luxembourg and is married to a local girl there. For some reason they always keep their maiden name throughout their life for any legal or banking business etc. She is known by my sons name. This is her second marriage, but she has always kept her maiden name. Lynda x

SheilaSomerset

SheilaSomerset Report 29 Aug 2006 20:07

I did keep my maiden name - no problem! Why should I change my name after 35 years!

Susan

Susan Report 29 Aug 2006 20:53

When I got married 27 years ago I couldnt wait to get rid of my maiden name !! But........since I have been researching my tree I began to have a longing for the name I no longer had. I realised I was the last female (that I know of) with that surname. I made the decission to change my name by online deed poll. It only cost about £40. I didnt want to hyphenate it with my married surname so I simply inluded my maiden name as another middle name. All the best. Susan

HeatherinLeicestershire

HeatherinLeicestershire Report 29 Aug 2006 20:58

No I didn't keep my maiden name, it's not that common, but I prefer my married name. Heather x

Joe ex Bexleyheath

Joe ex Bexleyheath Report 29 Aug 2006 21:03

At last ! something some ladies dont want to take from us poor fellas - it's usually take, take, take and one time we try to give and some dont want it ! lol should be copyright on it anyway once the marriage ends

~♥ Daisy ♥~

~♥ Daisy ♥~ Report 29 Aug 2006 21:06

Don't like my married name at all, didn't like the first one either and although my maiden name's very ordinary it's still the one I think of as mine so yes, I wish I'd kept it. If I did it now though hubby would have a pink fit! Next time I get married I'll revert to my maiden name. Daisy

Tina-Marie

Tina-Marie Report 29 Aug 2006 21:08

I use my married name, have had it for 23 years, although divorced now. I don't want to get married to my OH of 12 years as he expects me to take his surname. Don't want to lose my identity. How daft is that. LOL Tina x

KEITH H

KEITH H Report 29 Aug 2006 21:11

brothers OH name was hassell so is ours

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 29 Aug 2006 21:19

I love my maiden name and would revert to it in a flash if I was single, I think getting into family history makes it more so, Cazxxxxxxxxx