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Sun Lover

Sun Lover Report 13 Feb 2007 23:24

Didn't have a M in L but always called F in L Dad and my OH always called my parents mum and dad. Our S in L's call us by our names and D in L to be does too. Daphne

**~~**  Mad Moo  **~~**

**~~** Mad Moo **~~** Report 14 Feb 2007 00:26

Only have a fil i call him Grampy . I can't call him dad as my dad died when I was 20 and still find it difficult now. Have explained this to him and he is fine with it he knows I love him anyway no matter what I call him he's damn lubly !!!!! Claire xxx

SueinKent

SueinKent Report 14 Feb 2007 07:56

My MIL and FIL are no longer with us, but I called them by their christian names. MIL did once say I could call her mum like her other DIL and SIL, but I politely told her I only have one mum. Sue

Margaret

Margaret Report 14 Feb 2007 08:21

I didn't call my in-laws anything face to face but referred to them as your Mum or your Dad. My own d-i-l calls me by my Christian name and that's what I would expect, after all I am NOT her Mum and wouldn't expect her to give me that title, although we have a good relationship and have many a good laugh together. I understand completely that you only have one Mum.

.•:*¨¨*:• ★Jax in Wales★.•:*¨¨*:•.

.•:*¨¨*:• ★Jax in Wales★.•:*¨¨*:•. Report 14 Feb 2007 08:33

I call them by their christian names, they have asked me if I want to call them mum and dad but I explained to them it didn't feel right and they were fine with me carrying on as I always have. They are good to me and treat me as one of their own but I can't do it. Jackie

Sue

Sue Report 14 Feb 2007 09:37

I call them Mum and Dad Sue x

(¯`*•.¸*Karen on the Coast*(¯`*•.¸

(¯`*•.¸*Karen on the Coast*(¯`*•.¸ Report 14 Feb 2007 09:42

my in laws are both dead but i never called them Mum and Dad but my oh has called my mum,mum for years,almost since we got together and long before we were married and he calls my Dad,Pad(short for Paddy).

dutch

dutch Report 14 Feb 2007 10:21

i call my mother in law moe which in english is for mother joyce from hollandx

Sheila

Sheila Report 14 Feb 2007 13:43

Difficult one this, especially for those on our fourth mother in law lol! First one didn't speak to me if she could avoid it so didn't call her anything (well that's not strictly true but you know what I mean) Second one had a stupid nickname that everybody used including her own children - so that was easy. Third one was a diamond, but I don't remember what I called her -probably Grandma because that's what the kids call her. Present one (and hopefully the last) is great - she signs cards and stuff 'Mum' and so I call her Mum - it works for us. Sheila

Elizabeth

Elizabeth Report 14 Feb 2007 13:56

My in-laws are long dead, but I used to call them Mr and Mrs W. It was how we were brought up nearly 50 years ago. My daughters in law call me by my Christian name. My husband calls my mum by her first name, I do too when I'm speaking to my children, especially as my grandchildren call her G.Grandma Mary. Liz