General Chat

I am thinking of you as always Puss. xxxxx

Bless you-seems like you had it very tough. At least now you are able to talk about it to us all-and hopefully this is the first step to rid yourself of these dreams. Sometimes the past comes up to haunt us and we do not understand why-perhaps time will tell. Just hope that you can be strong and not let this destroy you. You are very well liked on here and have a lot of friends around you-please take heart from that and know we are always here for you-hope you have a good Sunday and find a wey to put these dreams to rest. Bless you XX

thankyou gillian and posh for your kind words i do feel better for talking, and im just annoyed it got me so worked up this morning thankyou all xx

Thankyou Puss You have made me think! Ann x

Pusser I can identify in many ways. See a Counsellor. I was very sceptical at first. But best thing I did. Still have nightmares though. LW

thank lw, xx ann are you ok xx

I'm so very sorry for your pain and the childhood you didn't have. What you're feeling may be grief for the loss of what could have been. It is no different from feeling grief for someone who has died. You think you have lost that little girl, but she is still there inside. You need to get in touch with her again even if it is painful and show her a lot of love and tenderness. You deserve it. Susan xx

Puss, havnt really spoken to you, but would just like to say. You should be proud of yourself, and not let the past ruin the future, you have to make sure you take control and not be the victim for the rest of your life. You sound like you have a lovely family and friends. Sending you a (((((((hug)))))))) Wendy.xxx

Puss, I think you were so brave to let us share your feelings and I do hope you get some help to talk all this through. Do you think your mother was jealous of the love your father had for you, even if she didn't realise it was obsessive and not quite right and that is why she behaved as she did towards you? I am waiting for counselling over issues with my childhood that I think might account for my ocd, sometimes you have to wait a while. I am 13th on the list, and lots of lists are closed because so many people want counselling but the thought of getting help to understand things, is keeping me going. Do hope your GP is sympathetic - they might refer you to a counsellor who works with your surgery or outside counselling services. I was given a list and had to ring several before I found someone who could put my on the waiting list but I will wait my turn and hope I can get things clearer in my head. Good luck, you are one special person and you know you have love and support on here. Don't feel guilty about the way your relationship is with your Mum, just do what you can and don't put yourself under pressure to do more than you feel comfortable with. Lizx