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just ((((hugs)))) Neubie, I can't think of anyone who would be a better friend to have than you at such a time. Be gentle with yourself also.

Rose xxxx

RR ..it's not over till the fat lady sings ;-)
<3
TY
Edit , sorry that sounds weird but thats our latest mantra and we don't know many fat lady singers in our village ..
:-D

Hi
This is such a tough thing for you to go through
We went through it last year with my dad he died of lung cancer we had 12 weeks with him
The only advice I can give is be yourself the friend she loves
Cry together and laugh together talk or just sit and listen she will guide you
And most important cherish every single moment you spend together for these will be your memories after she has gone
My heart goes out to you
PP x <3

KIM MY FRIEND
ONLY THING I CAN SAY IS MAKE HER SMILE A LOT
THEN YOU WILL HAVE THAT SMILE TO REMEMBER

I HAVE MET YOUR FRIEND I KNOW HOW CLOSE YOU ARE
AND ,KIM I KNOW YOUR A STRONG GAL,BUT I KNOW
THERE IS ALSO THE KIM WHO NEEDS US TO BE STRONG ,FOR HER
AND WE WILL.DAY OR NIGHT WE WILL BE HERE FOR YOU,
AN YOU GOT MY NUMBER,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

SO YOU SMILE AND SHE WILL SMILE
AND YOU WILL REMEMBER THAT SMILE , ALWAYS XX

LOVE TO YOU MY FRIEND XXXX

Kim,

I know just how difficult this can be, many members on here know what I attempted to do in helping Daff last year. I also nursed my sister in her home until she passed away.

No details on here but if you want to pm me please do. I had more coping skills than I could have imagined and you will too.

Sue x

Just adding to what Pamela said. Make sure that what she wants as far as funeral arrangements, etc. are concerned, are known to whoever will actually be arranging the funeral.
Another lady on this thread did all the visiting and clearing out of her father's things, but when her brothers heard of his death, they wanted things to be different and she wasn't able to carry out all of what her Dad would have wanted.

If you know the next of kin, I'm sure you will be able to let them know - even if only a little at a time - what her wishes are. That way, there won't be any worries when the time comes. Get it sorted now and put it behind you while you spend as much time caring as you can. My thoughts go with you.

hi neubie,
how are you doing,how is your friend,has she got a date to have her radium treatment yet,hope all is well.

sue

I think she is away on holiday that was planned some time before.

thank's ann