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Having to make every decision, because there is no one else who knows all the circumstances to make it with you. Everything from what to buy for tea to the life-changing ones.....

having a moan lol, I used to be indecisive now I'm not so sure......

I know Rose I used to be the decision maker and now I refuse only sometimes I step in when needs must however being single has its plus points you dont have to answer to any one

thats the best thing about being single lol, no one to answer to doing what ya want when ya want lol,

Oh to be single, joy of joy

not having to consider someone else, making all decisions, being able to do what I want when I want.

Sounds like heaven but I bet it's just a case of the grass is always greener on the other side

funny that's the thing I miss about not being single, then I made up my mind and stuck to it now if OH disagrees with me I have to think again and heaven forbid compromise.

But I do know what you mean there are times that I thank my OH for making a decision I couldn't.

I would hate having no-one to blame when the wrong decision is made........poor Rose.

(((((((((((((hugs)))))))) Kittty I miss you so much

Awww Stephen what a nice thing to say :))

It's not that I CAN'T make decisions, but just that I seem to very tired of having to for so long, as you say Kitty when you only have yourself to blame for making the wrong ones, it's doubly hard lol.

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((((((((HUGS))))))))) Hayley right back :))) xxxxxxx

I make most of the decisions then convince my OH they are his idea...........a win win situation I think:)) lol

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I am to easy going and anything for a quiet life but when I put my foot down its with a very firm stamp.....lol

We discuss things and then doing anything about it waits until I say, now!

I hate being single... not see a soul all day. Never mind eh? Another day tomorrow.

Tina x

Being single means not clearing up someone elses mess.

No arguing what to watch on TV

putting something in a particular place and it not moving

lol TootyFruity, that doesn't quite apply to me with a teenager ;)

Hi Rose,

Now you know you like being single....lol

I think its the best, no nagging, no arguing, no having to put up with the other half getting into a mood over something trivial, and no deceit either.

You can more or less do as you please when you want, decorate to ones own taste,
go on holiday to where you want, when you want,
cant beat it.
Stay single Rose, you know it makes sense.

Foggy xx

For all those positives Foggy, I can give you a negative :)

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With teenager means 10 x more housework than necessary

screams of "oh you never understand me" followed by grunt.

Sorry second one is OH got sidetracked lol

Hi Rose,

just popped in to say i love being single....

two marriages behind me and four children, this is MY time.. and i enjoy it

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I like being single too!
Had two daughter here - well they were young - since then they've occasionally come back. Now both are settled down with partners. Bliss!
My mess
My dirty dishes
Have what I want for dinner - if I don't want to cook, I don't have to cajole someone else into doing it - i just don't cook - beans on toast is sometimes enough
Only have to iron my clothes
Two bedrooms to turn into storage/junk rooms
Less shopping to lug back from the supermarket.
My decisions are mine - if they are wrong - so be it - they only affect me, and I only have myself to answer to!!!

I could go on........

Oh yes, and the big double bed that is all...MINE...lol

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