General Chat

had a baby?,im so fed up with women at work asking me this aaaaaaaghhhhhh,its my body and my descision,im happy as i am for now and so is hubby
thats it feel better now

Good on yer!

OK it's a womans right to have a baby, but its also a womans right to choose not to, or to decide for herself when the time is right.

thats right,last time i got asked i just told her to shut up
its not the nicest of places to bring kids up in anymore

hi janine i get asked that all the time (im 34). either that, or they assume i already have them, and then look at me as if i'm weird because i haven't!!

Many years ago I was asked this and I used to say "How do you I can have children" this was enough to stop them in their tracks. I used to then turn on my heels and walk away.

Did eventually have my son after being married 9 years.
Always had problems in that department.
Frances

And on the flip side .............


The assumption that because you are in your mid 40s you must of course already have children ? ? ?


Errr nope - I am single and I am childless - the later being my own choice ............ and of course I must be a divorcee as I am single too - NOPE !! lol

If, and when you are ready Janine--don't let the b*****s get you down !

None of their business Janine.

If you want one you will no doubt have one.

Enjoy your life as it is.
Deanna X

tell em to sod off in the nicest possible way - I had big problems in that department and was married eight years before I had my one and only having lost three along the way - people should not ask such personal questions

McAnne, not childless, child free. Or at least I am, by choice.

Rosalind

I can't believe people are so rude as to mention it, janine!

Angela

I get jarred off by always being called Mrs when I have never ever made anything legal lol When my son was small I was always correcting people who would call me Mrs W or start to fill in anything with Mrs. Have been Ms since my mid twenties and won't answer to anything else.
Lizx

your choice nobody elses. tell them to butt out and mind there own business and let you get on with yours

Joan G

Liz .................. i get exactly the same lol

Don't know how they think they know cos i don't wear any rings.

Hi Janine,

It is a rude question I think. Its ok to say ' have you got children' but not to ask when you will have them and if!!


Caz xx

you get that all time being a women

either when yoou aving them

or when are you having your next then

or when you are they say oh thought youd have had more by now

never please anyone, and why are thye so bored they need to know your sex life anyway

lmao

Tell them you are waiting til they have a specail offer on them at supermarket,!!!!!,

,,their answer would be from me,

NOYBB,,,,,,,,,,and I'm still in practice.........:))

Me neither Anne.
Lizxx

I must have been lucky because I've never been asked/questioned/nagged about the children issue - good job really because my reply wouldn't be very polite!

Sheila (child-free and happy)

Mac ,,ha ha,,you wally,,,,,,,,

did you really suffer love,;)))