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during my thirties............. I really couldn't care less what people I don't give a stuff about think of me lol. When I was younger I'd fret about what impression I was giving and whether or not somebody liked me .........but no more !!!

I'm actually REALLY beginning to look forward to being 40 now as my thirties have been a blast.......if I keep losing hang ups at this rate by the time I'm 50 I'll be damn near perfect...... lololololol xx

i have never care

what people i wasnt keen on

thought of me ever

lol muffy i was the same , and now i know im a nice person and aslong as im nice i dont give a fig what people think.

muffs you get to your 40's and it really is you are comfortable with yourself-and you totally don't give a hoot-Life does truely I believe begin at 40-who ever coined that phrase was spot on.....

my 20's were the worst time for me-
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I know what you mean Catherine. Things started getting better for me in my very late twenties but circumstances made it a very testing time for me. I
had a major amount of bad knocks and lost my confidence for ages but being a mum when I was 30 cured that for me and it's got better ever since xx

well this year i hit me 50,s..........any suggestions.its killing me the thought im half a century.lol

Yes Joyous...........my advice is....don't change a bleedy thing about yourself......you have a superb and young outlook on life....... you're only as old as the man that you...................dream about lol xx

I can't believe I am 42 this year-I feel about 32
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joyous no way ya 50????

I hit my 50's 4 years ago..............not quite as bad as I thought it would be, apart from the hot flushes and creaky knees!! LOL

I loved my thirties and forties too:))

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Hi girls, I am going to be 68 soon, and I am so confident.

I have been through all the you have been through and now I am happy.

I have to say though that your basic nature will never change.... there will always be a little of what you were as a young woman.

I am a little shy, a little worried about what people think , still the same ME..... but I was definitely born to be an older woman!! ;-0)

It is comfortable, friendly, the competition may still be there.... but who cares?

Enjoy EVERY ONE OF YOUR STAGES.

This is your life.... not a dress rehearsal.

Love yourselves my lovelies...
Deanna X

I think life teaches you what to be aware of and what not to bother about.

I dont' need anyone's approval to be myself, I am who I am. I dont' set out to hurt people but I will defend those who have been hurt. Even then that has been a mistake at times.

However I wont' be made guilty by association. I speak to who I want, and I dont' hold grudges. If people can't respect that then its their problem.

*tsk* listen to me being all sanctimonious LOL.

I am still a tad shy in real life Deanna..... probably always will be but I fight it every inch of the way. So I can relate to what you are saying about basic nature not changing. REALLY wise words hon....... thank you xx

I've heard you get sanctimonious in your 60s Teresa.......


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Seriously that's a great post too.... more wise words. xx

you know its funny as i always assume people on here are just my age lol

i dont put none of yas in age groups coz ya all seem the same age lol fun and out going

sometimes it shocks me when people do say there age and i think no wayyyyyyyyy

altho im shy when i first meet people unles i fell confortable enough to be meself or iv had a drink lol

Muffy I agree with you. When I was in my 20's I worried about what people thought of me, although having my children helped with my confidence, but in my thirties I've stopped worrying about what people think of me, if they don't like me then that's their problem, not mine. I also think splitting with my ex helped, it meant I had to do things on my own and discovering what I was capable of doing, even if it was just putting a flat pack of drawers together, gave me confidence.

*glares at Muffy* I'm not even in my 50's yet thank you very much.

*swishes newly cut hair a la Hayley*

Stray I don't tend to put people on here into age groups either.

Age is just a number.

You're not 50 yet TW?????

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That's the really interesting thing about the meets I've been on........ such a difference in age but it makes absolutely no difference......everyone (so far) has been on the same wavelength.......I've enjoyed them enormously xx