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.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 08:45

Looks or personality?



Had a discussion with SIL today about which is more important, she says looks I say personality. What do you all think?

MarieXX

MarieXX Report 31 Jan 2008 08:48

Looks certainly help, gift of the gab goes a long way but personality is the most important for me.
SD xxx

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 08:49

Ditto, looks fade but your personality is always there

THE GOTH CHICK

THE GOTH CHICK Report 31 Jan 2008 08:50

Personality first looks second

Carole

Carole Report 31 Jan 2008 08:51

personality with a nice bum !!

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 08:52

pmsl Carole

Lin in Sussex

Lin in Sussex Report 31 Jan 2008 08:53

I think there is an initial physical attraction but for me its personality.
Looks can influence how you react to a person, but I think personality is ultimatly what shines through.

Lin x

MarieXX

MarieXX Report 31 Jan 2008 08:54

Yep Carole and a nice bum xx

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 08:55

Must admit I was surprised at her opinion I would have taken her for a personality girl. Nice to have both looks and personality but if it was either or no contest for me

HeatherinLeicestershire

HeatherinLeicestershire Report 31 Jan 2008 09:08

Personality, looks fade personality doesn't xx

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 09:18

SILs arguement was without looks there would be no initial attraction.

Juneoftheroses

Juneoftheroses Report 31 Jan 2008 09:30

You look at a person & you think they look nice...
but its personality that counts.............

S' Rioghal Mo Dhream

S' Rioghal Mo Dhream Report 31 Jan 2008 09:58

Good morning folks.

How can you be with someone just purely on looks?

So,.... they could be right w*****s, horrible, no sense of humour - but if they are good looking then it dont matter????. That is a relationship built on nothing,Looks fade very quickly. i mean lQQk at me!! lol

Yes there may or may not be an initial attraction there but to get to know someone for who they are and to be with someone because you have made a connection with 'who they are' **their personality**, is much more deep and satisfying.
'does that make sense?'

Rio

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 10:03

It does mate I agree completely, as do all the peeps who have added to this thread so far. SIL is a lovely girl which is why I was so surprised and posted this thread. (and her OH is a lovely guy but no oil painting so I guess its all in the eye of the beholder)

:) still smiling :)

:) still smiling :) Report 31 Jan 2008 10:03

it's 100% personality for me.

sounds awful but my partner and i went to school together for five years and i never looked twice at him. in college i got to know him and then sounds a bit daft but i think someone's personality are their looks.

if someone has a nice personality it shines through to looking good too.

right about the nice bum though! with you on that one. :)

Rambling

Rambling Report 31 Jan 2008 10:13

I am not going to ramble this morning!

Personality!

xx

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•.

.•*´♥ ´*•.¸ ally¸.•*´♥`*•. Report 31 Jan 2008 10:14

Lol xx

★♥*¨¨*Little Ann*¨¨*♥★

★♥*¨¨*Little Ann*¨¨*♥★ Report 31 Jan 2008 10:16

Personality xx

S' Rioghal Mo Dhream

S' Rioghal Mo Dhream Report 31 Jan 2008 10:16

But then a volumptious body with big 'ear-rings' n a nice bum helps too ... but thats for another thread... lol

;-)

Rio

S' Rioghal Mo Dhream

S' Rioghal Mo Dhream Report 31 Jan 2008 10:17

Hey there Rose ... How are you?


Rio