General Chat

decisions?

Walked on the freezing cold beach today....
decided how the rest of my life has to go...
not the specifics but the changes I need to make .

Rose xx

on a scale of one to ten? JJ lol

not sure what to say really, just got to the point where i know what things have to be changed...and how to start doing that I suppose...and that it has to be NOW!

Rose xx

Thanks JJ...I hope so too! either way it has to be 'different' lol

Rose xx

let's hope you make the right decisions for yourself

Ann XX

LOL Ann...think that might be the tricky bit! Something of a first if I do!

Rose xx

well you know what a good place for advice these boards are - if it's not TOO personal and then you wouldn't want to post it but I'm sure if you pm'd those you trust they'd help

Ann XX

Ann...some of it is personal...
but the rest is mainly down to me moving from where I am now...out in 'nowhere land'...to somewhere ,not sure where yet,
where there is more life and more opportunity...

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good luck with any decisions you make Rose. Wish i lived near enough to the beach to walk on it.

Ann
Glos

rose are you ok

best thing i ever do rose is sit in the cathedral and light a candle am not particularly religious , but i often popin and sit quiet think for a while. clears all the rubbish out of my head!

Thanks Hoff...erm ...not really lol...but
do appreciate you asking xx

thanks Ann xx

Stella...good idea...
I don't often get there
but in a town near here there is a lovely Catholic church (my mum was Catholic, though I am not) it has the most beautiful stained glass windows...and a deep sense of God being present there,I feel.

If I am there I light a candle and just sit for a while....

Rose xx

get yourself there then rose,
only you and your god can talk this through!

Hi Rose,

You and me sound to be at a very similar place.

Good luck hun,


Caz xxx

Stella...one of my mum's sayings...

"God helps those who help themselves!"

lol...not that I am saying God doesn't and won't help...but to all practical purposes this one is down to me! (I tend think that God , whatever we perceive him to be...has much bigger things to deal with other than my small problems and many,many other people certainly need his attention more!)

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Thanks Caz,

Good luck to you too! (((hugs)))

Rose xx

Hello Rose.......the hardest thing about decisions is actually makeing them.....lol

If things don't change they stay the same.

A daunting prospect if life seems to have gone somewhat stale.
Chin up
Amanda xx

lol Amanda ..you are not wrong there about decision making!

I used to be decisive..but now I tend to worry too much whether I am going to get it 'right'...

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Yes Rose......but......if things don't change they stay the same........lol

I feel a need to actually DO something rather than just keep plodding along.
Probably 'cos it's a new year.......lol
Amanda x

Hiya Rose . I know you will make the right choice , if you need anyone to talk to ,you no where i am , i no we dont speak often but i am a good listener
((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))
Chris xxxxxx