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Hi all.

I have digested all the advice received from you all and come up with a five point plan to change my way of managing my life. This is purely based on the pointers from you lovely people:

1. Keep my misery to myself. Others have enough trouble of their own to cope with.
2. Get away for Christmas.
3. Meet with other people.
4. Don't forget about the past but live for today and the future.
5. Get my sense of humour back and start laughing again.

So what have I done with these conclusions?

I was lucky enough to have a cancellation for a short break in Jersey in a posh hotel in St. Helier. It starts tomorrow (Monday) and goes on until January 2nd.

I'm going to have a real good go at enjoying myself and it is all thanks to you all. You are wonderful people. I love you all to bits.

Downside is that I won't be able to get in touch over Christmas but I will certainly join the chat show in the new year.

Thanks a million everybody.

Have a super Christmas and a very happy and prosperous new year.

Fred

Really pleased you are having a holiday Fred, hope you have a great time! will look forward to chatting when you come back.

Happy Christmas to you!

Rosexx

FRED I DID ASK WHERE YOU LIVE
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Fred have a lovely break ......and see you in the new year all the best xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

excuse me for poking my nose in... but isnt every thing relative.... fred,,, in my opinion,,, do what you hear and life tells you to do... but at the end of it all remember what you shared with your loved one. Remember and celebrate what you loved together and do that again to honour the one you loved.... live it again, for their memory and yours,,,,, just remember, especially if it brings the good times back for you.. because it will for them too.....XXX

Ditto to what Twig just said.

Hope this Christmas will be a good one for you
See you when you get back
xx
Fi

My heart felt wishes to you fred and yours...XXx

so glad to hear you came up with an excellent solution - wish I was coming with you - had my honeymoon in Jersey - if it's The Merton where you're staying, that's the one we stayed at - have a great time and let's know how you got on when you get back Love Ann XX

FRED

YOUR TWO MILES AWAY

Dear Fred, what a positive thing to do and I hope you have a better time in Jersey......we went there on honeymoon and its a lovely place....and you know the saying.....a change is as good as a rest.....x

Watch out for all those wealthy widows Fred. You have a great time, we all want to hear about it when you get back!

hope you have a lovely time Fred
catch you in a few days and you can tell us what it was like.
Best wishes for Christmas and the coming year

love Bunny x

That's really good news Fred you will have a ball-
Happy Christmas and enjoy yourself.
see you in the new year.
catherine
xx

Great News, Have a lovely holiday and great Christmas. we will be waiting to hear all about it when you get back
Col

Really pleased that you have found help on here fred. I hope you have a lovely break, I love Jersey.

One thing wrong with your plan, on here you need never keep your misery to yourself, we are always here to listen if you are sad.

Ann
Glos

Have a lovely time Fred..................and Ann is right, we are all here for each other when we need to share a laugh, worry or need a hug.

A trouble or worry shared makes the burden lighter.

xx

Yes... what Ann & Kitty have already said.

Have a lovely time, relax & recharge.

Hi fred, enjoy your break look forward to seeing you on chat when you get back.
Have a lovely christmas and a very happy new Year.

Fred thats great to hear. Well done to you for having the strength to do something to help yourself. Have a good holiday and tell us all about it when you come back xx Merry Christmas

Hey Fred ... Wishing you all the best mate.

It is a lovely place ... Whats the name of the hotel you are going to? Drop us their phone number Fred ..They may have another cancellation for me!

All the best
Rio