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When you are at home do you have your own privacy? I just thought i forgot to add this to the first part of my thread earlier...i have found that i have NO privacy anymore! you know what he did...i was in the bath, with the door locked, he managed to unlock it and walked straight in, i mean all i wanted to do was shave my legs in private. Is this what happenes now? am i never going to be able to even go to the toilet in private now?? LOL x

Welcome to the co-habitation lunatic asylum!!! Daisy

nope and its even worse when you have kids too!!!

LOL i was like errr go away please, he asked why and i said cos im washing and shaving you can come back and talk in 10 mins, did he listen....NO! LOL xx

You'll just have to gently tell him that us ladies have certain thing s to do that have to be done in private. You'd think his mother would have told him! Jo.X

LOL...3 days ago i was too scared to do a number 2 if we were in the same house...and now i have to do it with him walking in and out! AAARRRGGGGGHHHH!!! HAHAHA xx

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Get a padlock! Then once you've locked him in the laundry cupboard enjoy a lovely relaxing bath... lol

Steph - too much info there love !!! As for privacy... well no, don't expect too much of it. I'd suggest you lay down some groundrules about the bathroom though !!!

Poor steedie! Thats so much reminds me of my honeymoon. I couldnt 'gO' for about a week. New hubby had to be sent out of the hotel to wander. hed come back and ask - any luck? I think he had graduated to isolation on the balcony by the end of the two weeks!

LOL... i thought i was going to be ok, cos he was asleep so i sprinted to the toilet, then 1 minute later he comes bouncing in and gives me a kiss! i was like OH NO!!! so i had to call my mum and tell her, she knows what im like! i used to always come home on a monday night in so much pain cos i hadnt been able to do the thing all weekend! LOL! xxx

Privacy, what's that? Can't remember the last time I went anywhere near the bathroom alone. Anyone would think I was incapable of sorting myself out!

Steedie When my husband and I first moved in together umpteen years ago, he got a book out of the library called 'Come live with me' which had ground rules for cohabiting. Things like how to sort out finances, establish privacy in the bathroom etc. I remember that one of the rules is that the female gets 80% of the wardrobe space. When we had kids we had one bathroom with the loo in it. I found both kids wanted to accompany me in there all the time. Later on, as soon as I sank into a relaxing foam bath there would be a knock on the door 'Need to do a poo NOW' . We now have a downstairs loo an upstairs bathroom with loo and my bedroom has an ensuite. Bliss! nell

My boyfriend can pick the lock on the bathroom door and comes in when i am in the bath. He sits on the loo and talks to me!!! Very annoying.

The height of intimacy, eh? Nell, by the way, that book sounds good! Bit late for us now, but I'll tell hubby about the 80% of the wardrobe bit.

I know exactly what you mean. My little girl even tries to get on my knee when I'm on the loo! As for my son - well, after many false starts I now have him trained to knock on the bathroom door. He is getting the idea though becuase he was most indignant when his little sister walked in on him having a wee at the weekend! Abigail

Buy a little bolt for the inside of the door, problem solved. Penny

hmm I suppose being single has its good points...LOL

Wait till you have children, you can't even go to the toilet on your own.

ok so i got in the bath last night, locked the door even moved my baskets in front of the door...so he still managed to unlock it, even after me shouting go away (nicely put) he still refused...so i give up now...my privacy is well and truly out the window LOL!! xxx