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I hate to moan and I know I have insignificant problems compared to most but I'm feeling really low and melancholy today :-( Am away from home and only have the company of a 16yr old boy who despite being lovely and sweet would probably burst into tears at the sight of me upset. It's not a big deal, so am annoyed with myself for being like this! I've been single for 5 months tomorrow. I've been doing great and enjoying being single and rehauling my image, but then I heard something doing and I feel like I've taken 10 steps back... My ex had a MASSIVE fight with his new girlfriend last night and they are now not talking. WHY I even care about this I don't know... All I know is that as soon as I was told I felt pleased and hoped that they'd split. I am a stupid cow and I'm sorry for loading this all onto you... I do however feel better now... So thank you!

Bec, you'll be alright babe you are made of strong stuff!! susiexx (((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))

I been down for about a month and the people here are wonderful and i not felt better since chatting with you all other night(best nights sleep in weeks and refreshed now).I have been single for a while and my love is my pc now (don,t nag.lol.) and i happy at moment.Hope you feel better soon and i suggest a large brandy,hot bubbly bath with candles and nice bit of music..Take care love J.

that's a lovely idea Jason sounds great even for me at the moment just to chill!! Susie x

Thanks for your kind words I'm sure I'll feel much better in the morning. Just wish I could let go of the past. How do you know when you are 'over' someone? becx

some times you never are Bec...I will talk to you about it on our big Trek!! Susie xx

Its a bit like how you know when you're in love becs - you just do! You'll find that one day you wake up and it (HE?) won't be the first thing you think about and when you do think about him it doesn't hurt quite so much as it used to. Does that make any sense? Lucy x

He must have been the wrong person so it needed to end to make the way clear for the right person to find you.

I look forward to that Susie Let's hope that I've advanced a bit by then! lol xx

Bec Sending you a big hug. As I told you yesterday, you start worrying when youve been single as long as I have - over one year now!. The right bloke will come along just stop looking, your a brillant bubbly person, you dont need a bloke on your arm to make you feel good about yourself. We all love you. Hugs Karen x

Awww thanks Karen.... You've made me cry now! Becx (blubbing!)

Bec I wish I could say something to help ... but can't think of the ''right'' words, so shall send one of my best smiles :-) Joy

You silly thing! Dont cry, put on some feel good music, put on your gladrags and dance around the living room, you may feel a prat but I bet your be feeling better within minutes :-) and if that doesnt work, a bottle of wine and loads of chocolate always does the trick :-) Karen x

Bec This will cheer you up :- http://mch3w(.)ch(.)man(.)ac(.)uk/org/JDS/personalfiles/dan/stefan/music.html Karen x

Thanks Joy, Sharron and Lucy I'm ok now. Just annoyed with myself, I don't love him anymore or think about him... I am silly! <tut>

Little one....come here and give Grandma a big hug........it is so true....one morning you will wake up and you will be over him...and it will be so liberating....in the meantime...there is no rush is there? you are so young and you have plenty of time... smell the wotsits...... XXXXXBC.

Hi sweetheart, youre not silly and its normal for you to be feeling bad. I know ive been there before and im sure most of the other ladies on here have too. Sunshines coming and you WILL feel better and stronger than ever :-)

Thanks Grandma I'll be ok, just having a down day today :-( It's nice to know I have people who care about me when noone else is around. love becx

Bec, No words of wisdom from me, just a big hug (just don't beathe in, you don't want my germs lol) Paul xx