General Chat

I've always been a very trusting person, but recently I've founfdmyself getting more and more distrustful, suspicious of people's motives... reading between the lines too much. Anyone else have this problem or is it just me, because I don't like it !!!

Paul, I am sure you have a trusting nature, but maybe what you are reading between the lines may be true? XX BC

in some cases... definitely ! in some cases... who knows.

Hiya Paul, I have always believed that you trust people until they give you a reason not to. I have been walked all over a couple of times but overall it tends to work for me! Having a suspicious mind will have you wondering about things all of the time and will drive you bonkers! Jack xx

Jacks is right and I know this from personal experience as I had to stop myself from thinking this was a personal attack, I am always soooo paranoid about what people say and what they actually mean!!!!! Julie xxx

I'm with Jack, I trust people til they let me down and then I never ever forget that lesson learnt!!

I know you're right. and needless to say, I trust the majority :)

I find it hard to trust people I dont really know, (especially on these boards) In the last year I find myself asking questions to myself over peoples motives as I have encounterd several people who have two sides to their face, and sadly I have been hurt by these people. But I find once I have found people I can trust, they dont let me down and support me when I need support, as I can do back to them. Thank's to all of my true friends on here....(you know who you are ) Elaine x

Think perhaps one can spend too much time here trying to read between the lines & quite easily become paranoid..... Carol.

Elaine A very valid point, and I think my friends know who they are too... I didn't want to imply that distrusted them (on the whole lol) Paul x

yes and it drove me crazy! now i tend to be more like jack and Pinky, but its wierd, sometimes i can be way to trusting...as lot know, but other times i can be way too over suspicious...what can i say im a strange girl LOL xxx

I can be too trusting at times but am getting better at figuring people out, plus I have some good friends who look out for me and will (hopefully) protect me. love becx

I agree with Elaine on this one. Lizz

Bec...you know i woud always protect you...and poke anyone in the eye if they hurt you xxx

Hi Paul, I know what you mean. I do have a few good friends on here whom I trust and think I get on Ok with most people. But sometimes I do wonder what people are getting at. Gwynne

Steph - Awww thanks mate Can I send you a list?

go for it...ill start sharpening my nails! and dog face and pilsbury dough boy is top of the list! xxx

You're right to be suspicious of a few of the people on here, Paul. I've come to realise that there are those who have a very different 'off-boards' face to the one they present on the boards and there is a lot of stirring going on behind the scenes. I try not to be too pleasant on the boards just in case I give anyone the wrong impression:)

Not Dog Face now Steph New nickname= EMU (because she's an ugly bird), not my idea!

ouch LOL!!! emu it is lmao!!! xxxx