General Chat

Can't tell you what to do Jay but as someone said they have to pay or get out , that is the answer and any one else who comes in pays in advance and they stay in advance or leave tell them quietly and stay calm and explain as they havn't paid you you will all be thrown out as you didn't have the funds to put their share in and they don't owe it to you they owe it to the landlord this might make them pay up all the best keep your chin up Lara

I dont know the history to this, but it seems to me your 'friends' are really taking the p***. Go today to the Citizens Advice Bureau. They will give you all the options you have. My son had a 'friend' living in his flat for 4 months and eating his food/using his facilities. He even gave the guy a lift to work every day. He had agreed a verbal rent with the guy - in the end he got about £100 for the whole time and then the guy just disappeared. It certainly taught my son a lesson. You cant put up with this sort of behaviour. Obviously they have no consideration for you, so you should look after yourself.

i hope it was all sorted out for u please let us know take care xxxx

Can't believe that your own brother has put you into this situation....Hope everything turns out okay for you! Bev x

Thank you all for answering...Made me cry...You lot are so sweet.I still have ni what i will be doing and may find out tonight or in morning if i get some money....But to be truthful i don,t care anymore....I give up!!!! I think i will leave all and go...Sounds silly but i had enough and i know i will be homeless in a tent but away from sh**..Sorry but WHY DO I HAVE TO KEEP TAKING THIS??...You lot have been great to me and i love you all, i just can,t see where to turn..Love you all and will chat in a bit..Jay.xx

dont leave your home frosty you know theyll only turn up and live there, its tuff i know , my brothers like you , rented his house out to a mate, who never paid rent, my brother sold that house got a new one with a g/f who had 4 kids from previous marriage, he practically brought her kids up and she repaid him by sh-----g a fireman neighbour, in their bed, then told my brother to go and get a life, in the end she had the house , he didnt want the fight, thankfully hes got his own two kids , who he wasnt allowed to have visit when he was with the g/f as he was too busy doing what she wanted change your locks frosty, sell their stuff to cover some of their rent, stay strong and fight, you got us lot though we are on puter, we are with you

Why don't you take them to the small claims court. If they are working then you could do an 'attachment of earnings' claim - nothing they can do about it then. Anna

Frostyboy I do hope you are hanging on in there, some things are really worth fighting for you know, thinking of you,here's a hug to keep you smiling (((((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))) kes X

Jay, is there anyone there with you who could help, with moral support etc? You sound as if you're on your own there. It also sounds as if these people are thinking they can do what they like. Try and find the strength to put up a fight for your place! My thoughts are with you - take care, and please don't give up. Glenys x

Nudged for Susie xx

thankyou susie i can now see why poor jason is pulling his hair out,poor lad i cant believe that people can be so b****y nasty,especially when they are family!! wonder how they sleep at night? susie

Jason, you cant see which way because you need someone outside the situation to advise you. PLEASE go to the Citizens Advice Bureau nearest you - explain the situation and they can help you. They can phone your landlord and explain the situation. They can support you if you evict the 'friends' and lots more. They will sort out the money problems, a bit at a time. You mustnt give up. You must stand up to these bullies and inconsiderate people. GET support yourself immediately. Heather xx

Jay mate i am so sorry to hear what is going on for you right now, i will be thinking off you and hope all goesa well, like someone has already said take them to court to get back what is rightfully yours, don't give up you have all us here to help you through it!!! Love,kisses and (((((HUGS))))) Kaz xx PS: Will try to catch you on MSN soon. xx

Hi Jason - how r things today,have you had any help, as others have said 'you can't see the wood from the tree's', (or simular)so go get help, don't leave your home,tell them to go if anything,chin up,don't give in - okkkkkkkkkkkkkkk Keep in touch please. jude sarf wales xx :o)