General Chat

thanks to everyone who has sent messages and e mails of support today. it was so nice, and helped enormously. sue. x the specialist has seen harry [5pm yesterday] in the hospital, and is in agreement with us , that he cannot go home to live alone. when his treatment is sorted, they have found a 'halfway house' for him, to fully assess his needs. then [fingers crossed] a suitable home can be found for him. we feel as though a big weight has been lifted ! harry even admitted to us the other day that he does not want to go back to his bungalow, because he will be lonely ! so hopefully the transition will be easier than we thought it would. sue [feeling brighter than she has for the last few awfull days !]

Awwww Sue....hope you are o.k. XXXXXXXXXXXX BC

..... for most of you who do not know, my mother in law died [peacefully] yesterday. but to make things even worse, my father in law, who has dementia- as been unwell today. right now my lovely hubby is with him waiting for the ambulance to take him to hospital to sort him out. i cannot imagine how alan must be feeling because i am finding it hard enough......... sue.

Glad it helped. Hope the day went ok. Kaye x

hi BC- yes, just be glad when today is over,[ and alan is back here.] sue.

...pour yourself a glass, sweetie, and we shall drink a toast to loved ones...XX BC

Sue, Love and thoughts are with your whole family.. Susie xx

Hugs for you Sue. xxx

hi,BC. i have just done that, now i know i do not need to go with them to the hospital. its al i feel upset for. he hasnt had time to grieve today. poor bloke doesnt know which way to turn ! sue. [ps- you get yourself to the london meet, on daisy/ sues orders ! just wish i was going with you]

HI Sue, Really awful time for you and Alan, terrible for him, but keeping busy does help. Hope you are not feeling too bad? I have been thinking of you today. Love and hugs to a lovely lady x Pat x

Sue, just to let you know that I have been thinking of both you and Alan today. Give him a big cuddle from me, and tell him it is from the Tall Geordie Lass, who has a West Midlands accent. I am sure he will know who it is from. Will never forget him saying that. I will phone you tomorrow, as promised. Love Jenny. xxxx Just keep on looking forward. We have that Sauna and Steam room to look forward to.

Naw....wouldn't be the same without you.....XX BC

Sue - so sorry to hear your sad news, this must be awful for your husband.(((((((((Hugs to all))))))))) jude sarf wales x

sorry- just been on the phone. the ambulance has arrived , so hopefully hubby will be on his way home soon. lol jen- yes , he knows who you are ! he remembers my hangover too ! bc- i promise i will make it up to you- just fill both them fridges with vino collapso- i look forward to it ! again , thanks everyone. i have had messages tonight from people i do not know- i think that is wonderfull ! sue.

thanks susie, bendy, pat and jude [and those other 2- the reprobates] but things must be looking up- hubby is coming over for me now- cos his dad is refusing to get in the ambulance ! this is the same man who has not been able to get out of bed all day !!!! uumphhh-- so i have been drafted in to sort him out. i really do not believe this ! sue.

Attagirl...Viking Sue! Go and sort the men out! LOL BC

Hi Sue, so very sorry to hear you and Alan are having such a bad time of it. Hope you get the old boy settled in hospital soon, I expect he's feeling the loss in his own way poor chap. A vino might do the trick later, you'll be needing it I expect. Good wishes Jan

Morning Sue. Hope things got sorted last night...XX BC

hi buttercup, thanks ! we got home at 4 am this morning. and have to phone the hospital at 9.30, to see if he comes home or stays there alittle longer. i feel like a zombie, lol. nearly tied him to the hospital bed last night, lol. will let you know what happens..... sue.xxx

Sorry to hear this Sue. Sending love, hugs and thoughts, Mandy x