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You are not asking for anything you shouldn't have so please don't let him make you feel guilty!! Its his guilt not yours but with all that said i wish you everything I wish for myself.... PEACE, LOVE AND HAPPINESS! xx

natalia, how come your on here wheres your mum and dad, i hope you both make it up soon, dont let him make you feel guilty, its the classic trick, and ive fell for it everytime, you be strong , im a slow learner, and its only the last few years ive seen through it myself, take care of yourself, and make sure you get what is best for you, its not unreasonable to want all this, hug to you both

Hi Julie Anne, My dad is watching football and my mam is here. Just thought I'd let you all know whats happening. To top it all off it has poured all day so we have been stuck in the apartment. To top everything off my granda has just phoned, he is going to hospital for stitches in his finger. My mams a nervous wreck! He'll be fine but she worries as my gran died while they were here in holiday last year. What a week! Natalia xx

Hi Natalia, oh Hun I don't know what to say. Firstly, give your Mam and Dad a hug from me, won't you. Thank God you have them! I'm afraid I can't feel much sympathy for Mark at the moment, after what he's put you through. The reason being that he seems set on doing what HE wants, and s-d everything else. Correct me if I'm wrong though - in the circumstances I'd like to be proved wrong, lol. Your poor Mam, too - hope she doesn't have to turn away much business. Hugs from li'l ole England. x

hiya natalia.i think you will enjoy living there once you get the basics sorted . M friend and her hubby sold up and went to live in spain, at first they said they could not settle. but they moved area and now they plan to stay, i hope it all goes well.and enjoy your mam and dads stay with you x

Good Luck Natalia, been waiting for an update from you. Hope that things turn out ok for you both. Maggy

I forgot to say... if you ever fancy a visit.... I'm game for it!!! love becx

Hi Natalia Sorry I haven't been around much lately to reply before, but I'd just like to wish you both all the very best for a happy future together. At least you have talked and made some progress, which is good. Any relationship is about 'give and take' so it's not unreasonable for you to want him to arrange certain things in order for you to be happier about saying. Don't worry about his 'poor me' attitude at the moment - he's a man! (with apologies to any men who don't make a habit of feeling very sorry for themselves!). Love Mandy :) x

Natalia, wishing you all good things for the future and remember it's the man's job to make us women feel guilty for everything. M.

I really hope things work out for you, take care . Shirley Ann.

Thinking of you, Natalia. Joy

hi, As someone else has said now the decision has been made at least you can lay some ground rules and get what you want!!! even though it may not be entirely what you want...as long as you are happy in the long term, juyst try to enjoy having your parents over, love n hugs xxx

All I can say is all the very best for (both) your future(s); together hopefully. Remind him from time to time that marriage is very much a case of give and take, and that in the next crisis in your lives it's his turn to do the giving. God Bless, Brian, ;~x )

Morning - still thinking of you both, hope all goes well:o)))) jude sarf wales x

Hi Natalia - I have been following your threads and thinking of you, but haven't commented until now. It is clear that you love your husband very much and you are willing to make a huge compromise for the sake of your marriage - you have nothing to feel guilty about. It must have taken an awful lot of courage to make your decision, I just hope your husband appreciates what a wonderful wife he has. Good luck with everything - I will thinking of you. Kaye x

Hi Natalia I am pleased you have managed to make a decision of sorts, now you need to make sure Mark plays his part by meeting your requests, which seem to be quite reasonable. I wish you both all the best, and i hope you have a lovely time with your Mum & Dad this week. Yvette

hope weathers brighter today for you, how longs your mum and dad staying, i just been looking through the photo page again and saw you added a few pics, hows your grandad, how did he hurt his finger to need stitches, hope things are better for you and marks stopped his strop, thinking of you julie anne