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The hardest thing...
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Our Em | Report | 29 Oct 2005 07:09 |
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I am about to do the hardest thing of my life. to take a letter i have been preparing for many months to my birth mother. Some people on here may know the saga of my quest. Finding her. her wanting contact, then changing her mind. well i could not close the chapter on my life without a final goodbye so to speak.... and this day has arrived. I shall not see her, just post the letter through her door and walk away. Please think about me today... i need all the strentgh i can muster. many thanks.xx |
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Fairy | Report | 29 Oct 2005 07:16 |
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I'm sure it will be much harder for her actually Em. I had a similar experience many years ago so I do know how you feel. Be strong, you've done nothing wrong, but then neither has she. Sometimes circumstances get in the way. Good Luck, I hope you meet eventually. Jo. X. |
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Unknown | Report | 29 Oct 2005 07:18 |
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Em, Thinking of you not just today but in the coming weeks,,,,but hope its really not a complete final chapter,,,,,, But if it has to be then,the old saying as one door closes another opens, in your other quest. Kay. |
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Gwyn in Kent | Report | 29 Oct 2005 07:22 |
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Oh Em. I didn't realise this when I posted earlier. Will be thinking of you and hoping that one day the door will be open for you to meet. Gwyn |
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Guinevere | Report | 29 Oct 2005 07:23 |
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Hi Em, I hope you find the closure you need. Gwynne |
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WhackyJackieInOz | Report | 29 Oct 2005 08:10 |
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Hi Em It must be really hard for you and my thoughts are with you on this emotional day. I understand that you have to have some sort of closure and I hope that your life will be a good one no matter what the outcome with your mother. Like they say 'Life Sucks Sometimes' You will survive my friend Kindest Regards Jackie |
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Cool breeze | Report | 29 Oct 2005 08:19 |
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Hi Em, Good luck, your only doing what's best. ;) Micheal. |
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ButtercupFields | Report | 29 Oct 2005 08:25 |
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My dear Our Em. My heart will be with you today every step of the way. I hope this will bring you some peace. XX BC |
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Chris Ho :) | Report | 29 Oct 2005 08:29 |
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Shall be thinking of you Em, sending good luck your way. :) |
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Germaine | Report | 29 Oct 2005 08:32 |
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Hi Em. Shall be thinking of you. Hope all is well Take Care Germaine xxx |
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Michelle | Report | 29 Oct 2005 09:02 |
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Good luck Em. Thinking of you. M. |
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ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom | Report | 29 Oct 2005 09:05 |
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Em I hope you find closure, good luck, and dont be sad, you have completed a part of your puzzle. Better to know than to be constantly wondering. {{{HUGS}}} Elaine x |
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Unknown | Report | 29 Oct 2005 09:26 |
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Em Will be thinking about you today. I've been there, done that and now have a pretty good relationship with my birth mother although the start was incredibly rocky and fraught. Hope it all comes together for you Lou |
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***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** | Report | 29 Oct 2005 10:40 |
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ill be thinking of you em, been there with hubbys family, and thanks to mother in law, im picking up the pieces of what devestation shes caused i hope you stay strong, and have someone there to comfort you, take their help and keep those who love you close , you take care |
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JG70 | Report | 29 Oct 2005 11:39 |
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Sorry things were like that for you. I'll think of you today. Jacquie XXX |
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Lyn *in Gorleston* | Report | 29 Oct 2005 11:39 |
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Thinking of you Em ( HUGS) go your way mate.... Lyn. |
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Debby | Report | 29 Oct 2005 12:14 |
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Hi Em I don't know your story but I wish you all the best and my thoughts are with you today. Debby |
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Glenys the Menace! | Report | 29 Oct 2005 12:25 |
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My thoughts and best wishes are with you, Em. Take care. Glenys x (An adoptive Mum). |
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Joan of Arc(hives) | Report | 29 Oct 2005 13:15 |
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Hi Em, I will be thinking of you too today. Sending you a big (((((hug))))) & hope you get the result you wish for. :0) Joan xxx |
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Erikoinen | Report | 29 Oct 2005 13:35 |
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good luck babe Ken xxx |
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