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Steedie - 1. Please wait until it's confirmed before assuming the worst. 2. My father-in-law has recently had surgery for bowel cancer. He's 91 and is making a good recovery and the hospital are so pleased with him. Again, don't assume the worst. 3. Of course you need your Nan, but she needs you too, so go and give her a phone or a hug! Sheila xx

Steph Thinking of you and hoping for encouraging news about your Nan. Love Helen

You must call her, you will regret missing every opportunity you have to talk and be with her. I lost my dad 3 weeks ago now and the times I sit here thinking why didnt I put myself out more often to make that 4 hour journey. It wouldnt have been that bad. Make the most of every second you have.

Warm thoughts Steedie, and maybe if you do talk to Nan it will help xxxxx

My f-i-l had cancer of the bowel several years ago and he's alive and kicking now, so don't give up hope. She may be a little uncomfortable for a while but she will recover. I lost my Granny last year after suffering for 4 years with dementia. I still miss her so much and I'm in tears sitting here now. Granny's and Nanny's are so very special aren't they? Take care Julie xx

Thinking of you. Don't avoid your Nan. Don't make it any more difficult for her, she will appreciate having you there, showing your love, keeping things as normal as possible. Best wishes.

Steedie, I'm so sorry to hear about your nanny. I'll keep her in my thoughts and hope that she gets better. Take care, Helenxx

Steedie, sweetheart, don't worry yourself too much at the moment. Your Nan could overcome it, even if it is cancer. I have a friend who is almost 87 and in December last year underwent an operation to remove a large growth from her intestines. Because of her age, it took her a while longer to get back to normal, but she did, and she's now fit as a fiddle and doing almost all the things she used to do before she developed th problem. Don't fret too soon. It might be daunting, but not as bad as you fear. With love, CB >|< XX

Steph, I've not read the other replies yet, but go and visit Nan - she'll need you, and she'll need you to be strong for her. I feel for you, Hun - good luck. Keep us posted. x

Big hug for you Steph....XX BC

Loads of love and hugs to keep you strong. my grandad who is now 88, had bowel cancer. The tumor was the size of a cricket ball. He had it removed, didn't need a bag and has been all clear ever since. This was about 10-12 yrs ago and they know so much more now. Nanny needs all that love that you have right now. It will make her smile, can't beat that on a bad day. Good luck. XXXX Sue

People here have said lots to comfort you Steph think about what they have said as you shouldn't fret too much, it's not fully confirmed yet & may not be as bad as you think at first. Try and go and see your Nan soon, when you are calm I am sure she will appreciate it. Thinking of you (((HUGS))) Pat x

Steph, You will find the strength to deal with whatever is coming because your Nan will need you. Be positive, the news may not be as bad as you dread and as others have said cancer can be cured in many cases. Gwynne

Steedie. This is devastating news for you but take a look at the responses on this thread, they are very positive and we are all hoping and praying that your Nan is ok. With love, Daisy.

Now Mummy Pink is gonna tell you off.... PICK UP THAT PHONE AND CALL HER!! If you think you are scared, then how do you think she feels? And you would never forgive yourself if you lost the chance to tell her that you love her!! Big hugs tho and will send Nan some positive thoughts!! xx

Steph sweetheart I'm so sorry to hear this - try to be strong but you come here anytime you need (((HUGS))) :O) Sending positive thoughts to you all. Anne xxxx

Steph..... ((Hug)) If it is caught early enough Bowel Cancer is apparently one of the 'easiest' to treat. My Dad was diagonised with it 27 years ago and he is still here to tell the tale. Ring your Nan....I bet she is as worried as you about what you will say to each other.....I bet it turns out that no words are neccessary. Chris

Thinking of your Nan and you and your family. Linda xx

Steph my Mum had her breast removed through cancer five years ago she is still here fit as a fiddle smoking her head off at 80 years old, and your Nan will be here for ages as well my darling Dx

So Sorry Germaine x