General Chat

We found out why there are so many people chasing after the peeps who were living at the flat (the one we are in now, not moving into) before us. We always get letters from baylifs solicitors cos the guy owes so much money. We found out he got really badly in debt cos his wife died, thing is she died in the flat........see below

now i have said all along that place does not feel like a home, i hate being on my own there as i always feel someone is watching me. Since i found out she died there i have been so scared to be on my own but its been ok cos there has always been someone else there with me. PLUS it is seriousley cold in my bedroom, has been all year. I woke up last night to a really deep scracthing sound, yes it could have been anything but now im pooping myself cos Aaron is working a double today so he wont be home till 11.00 tonight, my mum is going clubbing so she cant come over, bro is busy with his bird, and my mates are working/busy....I really dont want to be there on my own tonight!!! xx

I feel like that where I am Steph, since I found out that the lady who was here before me died here, and sometimes I can smell cigarette smoke and I dont smoke its creepy isnt it? Davex

Steedie, its all in your mind, what is there to be frightened of? If the bedroom is cold, its because the heating isnt working right.... When did you find this out? Whilst you didnt know, it didn't scare you! The lady that owned this house died here too, sat down in her armmchair and just closed her eyes. It doesnt bother me one bit jess x

You'll be fine. Chances are that most houses have had someone die in them. Nothing is gonna hurt yah girl. I'm watching out for yah. ((((((((((hugs))))))))) Deanna XX

I remember when my aunt died at my grandparents house, I was always scared to go upstairs. When my grandmother died, I was even more scared. I remeber once in the bathroom turning round 'cos I could feel her behind me. I was only 14 at the time, but I still remember the strength of the emotions. Hope you feel better soon, Steedie. Love and hugs ((((((( )))))) Anne

Aw Steph that's awful and not funny at all. You poor thing! I would be just as scared as you are but a medium once told me just to tell the 'spirits' to back off and they will! Don't know if it works or not but it makes me feel better when I am alone in the house. If you want I could call you or try and be online this evening! Well only till ER and House are on! There are limits to any friendship LOL Julie xxx

I agree with Jess..... its in your mind babe!! Either that or you can try to thank them for looking after the place and send them on their way!! xx

Oh Steph not nice.. Do you think that finding out what happened has scared you. Not sure how to advise you but if you are religious why don't you go ask a local priest or vicar to Bless the flat. Probably your imagination is now playing havock. Don't worry too much it is the living you should be more afraid of. Germaine x

Hey Dave, that does happen doesn't it? We also smell ciggies. In our other house we could smell cakes baking through the night, and oranges being peeled. Our neighbours told us that the old lady who lived there used to love oranges, and she baked quite a lot!! Amazing. Well I think so anyway! Deanna X

We have to have the radiator on full blast cos its so cold, this is whats creepy and has freaked me out since we've been there, ill go up close to the radiator and its been hot, then in the middle of the room is freezing...even though the windows have steamed up. Jess, it never got to me that much before, as you say i didnt know, i know i sound silly but being on my own there used to scare me now its just scaring me even more, i practically ran out of the flat this morning cos i was scared to turn around.. Im prob winding myself up but i begged aaron not to do a late but he couldnt get out of it, i can see myself doing no packing at all tonight and sitting on my lobby stairs all night!!x

Steedie dead people cannot hurt you its real lifeones that cause trouble And the spirits are all in the mind be happy and enjoy life here is a big ((((hug )))) to help Howiexx

Steedies, there is nothing there! You'll work yourself up into an 'attack' if you aren't careful. put some music on, and get on with what you need to..... just make sure you choose music she'd have liked! sorry now i am teasing you!- you know i am only teasing though Jess xx

Just spend the evening on the board we will all keep you company xxhugxx

all i have in my mind is all the scary stuff ive seen on films, so yes i agree its prob all in my head, yeh her spirit may be there and maybe its just me that can feel her, i definaltey know im not alone, especially when everyone is out. Stupid stuff happens though, like i'll get up to turn off tv in the bedroom and before i push the button it switches off, or when i go to turn down the music it was put up louder than i put it. I havent spoken to aaron about it cos i know he will find it funny and tell our mates, but he does know i hate being on my own and that the coldness in the bedroom scares me. Thanks Julie, i think i will definalty come online, but do have to spend most the time in the bedroom tonight packing xx

Germaine, We are actually moving out of the flat Tomoro night! Your gonna think this is stupid but i think thats whats scaring me the most, she knows that we are moving and she might not let us go alive! We are the first renters since her hubby left. I can hear you all laughing but this is how my mind works xx

Put on some loud music and sing! If I did that I'd scare away living people never mind Ghosts!

Steedie I don't see how she can object to you and Aaron leaving when she let her hubby out alive! I wouldn't LOL! Although, maybe you and Aaron have some strange way of entertaining her that we should all know about?????? Julie xxx

LOL Jewels, it was only the other day that me aaron and our two friends were laughing about setting some cameras up and have our own internet room where people can watch us, we get up to some right stupid stuff at times, could make a fortune! One of our favourite tricks...actually the boys do this i dont! Is to catch a fly, tie a light pice of string around it, pin it to the ceiling and watch it fly around in circles lol! xx

I have just text our best bud Steve asking if he will come over and help me pack in return for my cooking...ok maybe i shouldnt have suggested the my cooking part he will run a mile!! He doesnt know about the situation yet so at least he wont come over and wind me up! xx