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This isn't really funny Steph. I have lived with neighbours from H*ll, and believe me, it is not at all amusing. If I were you, I would start keeping a diary of events NOW. Starting with the first night. AND in future don't do anything to him or her other than politely acknowledging them. If the get 'snotty' again, ignore it! He may be a pratt, but he could cause you problems. Deanna X

Manda, Well i cant really, cos then it could just give him more to complain about, like people smoking or whatever, but whenever we had parties in the old flat we would go round and tell the neighbours, so we will do that again in this place, but i think i will let aaron tell him and ill talk to the other neighbours lol xxx

Maybe you SHOULD invite him to your flat warming!! Then you can show him just how nice andpolite you really are!! :-)

To be truthful i dont hate him, but i really do dislike him, and im sure he feels the exact same towards me. I do feel ashamed that my polite and well mannered side of me wasnt seen first, he got the angry side. First impressions mean everything and i hate being disliked BUT i know i couldve prevented that. If he says anything and i mean anything (apart from if its something nasty about my aaron) I will just ignore it and be as polite as i can, the way i was brought up to be. I know im better than this xxx

Take it you wont be inviting him to your flat warming then Steph lol!!! Dx

sound like the pair of you are going to love carrying on hating each other.

Oh right Steph pmsl ! Dx

Dave, i didnt help matters though, i told him to stop moaning like a Bit** haha

LOL Hal! I would love to say that! Something that might make you laugh though which i was roaring with laughter with my mate about today was... the fellas bird last night was being so snotty to us my friend said 'im gonna take that plum out your mouth in a minute and shove it up you **** so i can understand wat ur saying' LOL soon shut the moo up! hehe xxx

I didnt no HO meant whore Steph so he called you that? Well I wouldnt have stood for that he would have had to get a punch in the throat Im afraid. Davex

Noooooooooo, Harold, dont give her ideas!

LOL..pad is home/flat/house Ho means whore (sorry bad language i know!) xx

Steedie,you should be very polite and gently ask him,If he had been to University to learn how to behave like that,?Or was he just born an arrogant, immature ill mannered pig. Hal.:0<))))>

Anyone who uses the words 'pad' and 'Ho' on a regular basis deserves a smack! If I was you I'd keep a low profile and record everything threatening thing he says/does. He may be in a more secure position than you if he's an owner and makes a complaint. I know it's hard but try and play it cool, just remember he's obviously a plank and you're better than him! x

No he wasnt nice at all, his gf was lucky she didnt get a chinning...but i wouldnt dare do that on my own doorstep!! All my anger management would go down the drain then too!! But as i said i will now do what i shouldve done in the first place and thats to rise above it! xxx

Oh Steph not nice, just steer clear of them. Germaine x

Oh dear i was wrong then....no wine ...no roses.....just an overdose of his testoterone again :-( bet he is ranking aswell :-(

You cant do anymore than to try an be reasonable Steph! If he is still funny that is his problem you and Aaron have tried. Davex

Steph has' wasted' him lol!!! Davex

Hiya Just wanted to say firstly thanks for all your replies yesterday. I do agree that i really shouldnt have lost my temper like i did with him when he knocked on my door, fair enough my rubbish shouldnt have been by my front door, i do agree. BUT this is to kinda show just what kind of man he is. We were shopping last night when my friends called, they had been buzzing our flat, he came out and actually started giving them abuse cos he thought my friend was aaron, when he said that they are visitors he still didnt stop, he was so rude to them and said that he will be seeing my boyfriend...to me that sounds threatening. So we get home and they tell us, so Aaron being the love that he is says that he will go up there and try to cool things down, not to start a row cos hes not like that. So he went upstaires knocked on the door and started chatting to the fella, next thing we hear is this guy shouting at him, we could see in the reflection of the window the guy in Aarons face waving his arms around so my friend went up there to try and calm things down...well it was a riot, it ended up him and his gf, and us all standing there arguing. I was so calm at first just trying to calm this guy down, i had his snotty gf standing behind him giving it to me and i really think i did well at first, but you know when you just get to that point where you should either walk away or you lose it, well i made the mistake of not walking away, and believe me all hell broke loose, of course then my best friend wants to protect me so she starts and shes a loon at the best of times. Things only got calmed down when his neighbour came out, he spoke to us all like children, which to be honest we were behaving like it, he took me and my friend downstaires followed by aaron whilst this guy was calling me all sorts including a 'Ho' But he did manage to calm things down and got us all back in our flats, he said that it was a joke that the guy knocked on my door, he said that it should never have happened but i know that if i had just swallowed and smiled sweetly last night wouldnt have happened...So from trying to sort things out with the guy has just made things 10 times worse, he actually even started threatening me, saying that hes got big boys from out of the area (which makes me keel over with laughter cos he just aint got a clue). Ive promised aaron though that even if he starts on me again, if he calls me names or whatever i will either ignore it or just be as nice as i can to him. I think its best to ignore it cos if im all nice and sweet that may look like im goading him on, what a mess eh! I admitted to him that i made a mistake and still!!! xx