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Daniel

Daniel Report 4 Apr 2006 20:21

My brother has had a very disheartening school report saying that he isn't making any progress, academically or socially. He'll also be off for a psycologist's assesement. He's got a degree of autism so is mentally backwards, 12 but acts more 7/8. Cook is going to stay home in the evenings from now on and look after him and engage with him more. Got to be for the best. She'll still have her other two jobs, but it's one less wage. I hope to be getting an income from June and possibly even be out by the age of 19, so that will help.

Speedy

Speedy Report 4 Apr 2006 20:24

I know this may sound silly, but have you thought of cooking for her....no thought not, but there is always the microwave if all else fails...lol Bev

Unknown

Unknown Report 4 Apr 2006 20:25

Other two jobs.......would she like to come to Scotland for a break, maybe you could don the apron for a bit :-)

.•:*:•. Devishly Angelic Juliecat & Panda..•:*:•.

.•:*:•. Devishly Angelic Juliecat & Panda..•:*:•. Report 4 Apr 2006 20:26

Is it safe for Daniel to be cooking???

Ginny

Ginny Report 4 Apr 2006 20:27

Perhaps the answer in the short term would be to learn to cook and give the lady a break !

Daniel

Daniel Report 4 Apr 2006 20:27

Yeah she used to be Cleaner, Dinner Lady, and Cleaner again. Now it's just the first two. I'm not asking for advice or female household tips! I'm just saying how it is :-)

Unknown

Unknown Report 4 Apr 2006 20:29

it actually sounds very callous how you have put it over. sharing a room with dead stuffed animals wont help your brother much

Kaz in a Tizz

Kaz in a Tizz Report 4 Apr 2006 20:31

Hope it means that your brother will make an improvement, Dan!

Mauatthecoast

Mauatthecoast Report 4 Apr 2006 20:31

Sorry to hear about your brother Daniel. Must be tough for your mam and dad. Your mam sounds like a hard worker. Mau XX

Ginny

Ginny Report 4 Apr 2006 20:31

I agree Sheila I thought it sounded callous too !

Ginny

Ginny Report 4 Apr 2006 20:32

Could you interact with your brother too ?

Daniel

Daniel Report 4 Apr 2006 20:32

Hope so. He was born this way and at home he seems fine, but apparently that's not the case at school.

Daniel

Daniel Report 4 Apr 2006 20:35

Err yeah, of course I do, and my sister.

Jean Durant

Jean Durant Report 4 Apr 2006 20:35

Daniel ... so sorry to hear about your brother. I do hope your Mum and Dad are O.K. It can't be easy for any of you. Do you interact with your brother? Jean x.

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust***

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** Report 4 Apr 2006 20:36

i think the last thing your mum wants is you to up and leave to help with the bills, try just giving her a hug and making her a brew, you know, all the thiings she does for you, three jobs and a family is too much for anyone, im suprised shes still on her feet dont look on it as the money loss, look on it as mum having a bit less to do, go on daniel buy her some flowers tomorrow, and give her a hug

Jean Durant

Jean Durant Report 4 Apr 2006 20:37

Sorry Daniel .... you answered my question before I even asked it. lol. Jean x.

Luciacw

Luciacw Report 4 Apr 2006 20:37

sorry to hear about your brother

PinkDiana

PinkDiana Report 4 Apr 2006 20:37

Dan - nice to hear that you are going to try and help bring money in the house. hope Cook gets the help she deserves from you other two!! Big hugs for all of you!! xx

Jean Durant

Jean Durant Report 4 Apr 2006 20:39

Daniel, Just read what Julie has said. she is absolutely right. I am sure your Mum doesn't want you leaving home for a while... she has enough to worry about. Hugs work wonders for Mums. Jean x.

Daniel

Daniel Report 4 Apr 2006 20:41

No worry about that yet, but do want to get off sooner rather than later. Shame that there isn't a great deal for my brother to do and really no lads his age in this area. He's on medication for his fits too so really not the best situation but he copes really well.