General Chat

Is this anything to do with you burning your arm on the iron?

No Daniel, Not for me. I believe we create our own destiny's by our choices!!! Grayxx

daniel this is something i have been researching for the last four years now. i`d be quite interested,in your experiance`s and your analysis of them. derek

I just spent 15 mins composing a response. I clicked enter to post it and I get error page. Am I too close to the truth? :-) I don't want to type it all again. Maybe later.

I think he is being serious, he can be.....

Hey Daniel just like to say didn't mean to be flippant with my reply :-))))))))))

Dan you dont mean Bill Gates do you mate Steve

What's that then Dan?

I don't know. But, there is one thing which has seemed to me, personally, to be more than a coincidence and the ramifications that followed from that possible divine catalyst, led to something great, yet caused a lot of strife in the process. (and still does)

I think your title belies what you are attempting to find out!! I believe we have to go thru some DARK points in our lives for many reasons........ and one of them may be just as simple as to be able to enjoy the good times!! I don't believe anyone is cursed!!

No I dont think there is a plan. I think life is a series of random situations thrown at us and it is how we deal with them that makes us the people we are. The more difficult situations occur, the more we grow. The further down we are pushed, the more we can clamber back with a little bit more knowledge.

There is something Daniel , guiding us and we make our choices rightly or wrongly, but there is something.....Not my usual flippant self but serious now....Maybe it is my Catholic upbringing..I don't know...

Ok. Right erm. Does some higher force, I'll call it God, have some plan regarding how our lives will turn out? Now, to acheive that plan, God has to put certain obstacles, certain troubles in our path to lead us into the direction of his celetrial blueprint. These troubles seem bad and negative to us at the time, but once weeks/months/years have passed and we look back, the apparent burden that was forced upon X time ago, turned out to be a positive thing in the long run. It's deep for Saturday afternoon, but it's been on my mind for fair bit and decided to put it into words today.

I'm cursed !!!!! just take a look at my Mother in law :-)))))))))

I am cursed Daniel..feels that way.....If its not one thing it is another...*sighs*

Er.. can i have a pint of whatever you are on ???? Pmsl, Sue xxx

*rolls eyes....oh dear he's getting deep again....hmmmmm

Or are things created and put in place by some higer force, despite how pointess the apparent burden seems, it is actually for own good in the long run? Is it nessecery for something we cannot foresee?