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I know this will hurt and I'm sorry, but have you considered that she may be using what happened to get out of relationship she no longer wants? It seems like a lot of over-reacting on her part. You should have both had a laugh over it. Just my opinion of course. Susan

Thanks Dragonlady...hopefully there is someone out there who is in a same sex relationship that reads this and can give me there views on this...mwah...thanks again..

good luck,and happines

same with other couples wether gay or not. may be someone whos reading this can help,because i know they are

i suppose there is things like tht Dragonfly...i dont think she would go, she is a very firey person...i dont know what i want..well i do..its a partner that trusts me 100%....10yrs is a long time to see it all just goooo...

i write as i talk?? an somtimes in writting it comes out totally wrong,no emotions feelings and if its msn ,,well offline to quick

among the gay community do they have councillors.someone who couldtalk to you both,,,or do you want her back

This could be true Dragonfly..i know if i was to meet with her id break...i am a very emotional person...after she left today i cried!!! :-( I can say how i exactly feel over pooter/text alot easier..

Thats ok jenny...i liked to hear it from all angles...

suggest meeting somwhere where your not alone and ask her what her problem is,could she be insecure,and testing your comitment,,sorry thinking fast,

i have asked others Dragonlady and they all say the same...she dont trust me.... and that hurts..i cant be with someone who doesnt trust me or thinks i could do such a thing..

she doesnt know the guy Dragonlady....

Could be a case of he doth protest too much! sorry to be so synical Jen

cant really advise love ,dont comunicate with my husband very much,seems if i try nearly always ends iin arguments, is there anyone you can ask,the only thing i will say,talk in person not text or pooter,,in person,you can see reaction,cant on here

just through the computer or text sge did call today for some plants from the garden then left..once away she texted saying ' i was free now' i think she is just playing mind games..as later through the comptuer she said she had forget to collect her belongings that was here..i replied saying she knew where they were if she wanted them for her to say 'just bin them'. I am hurting soooo much right now but i dont see why i should try and correct anything when i havnt done anything wrong apart from be honest..

Have you spoken to her recently

I have told my partner i cant be with them if they dont trust me...and that seem to be it...so to me they still believe im capable of doin something like that.. :-(

still a partner,,or dose she fancy the other person,sorry but first thing i thought

Either you trust someone or you don't. It's irrelevant who suggests what to whom. If your partner doesn't trust you, that's down to his insecurity not your honesty. nell

Dragonlady...i will be honest here...my partner is female... Hope i havnt offended anyone!!