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Hi all..il make this as short as i can..here goes..while i was online one night chatting to my partner i was also chatting to others, a certain guy made some rude suggestions to me(which i didnt like), i told my partner this and as a result we have not seen each other for 2 weeks...my partner basically accused me that if my mood was right i would take this kind of offer...and now says they dont trust me...i am absolutely flabagasted that they even though this of me...i thought i was doin right been honest..how would you react or what would you of done had it been you in my position??

I can't tell you as this hasn't happened. Guys that made rude suggestions to me in the past (I'm too old now, lol!) used to get rude replies. Didn't see the need to bother partner with it. But as you have told partner and he has reacted like this, its obviously a sensitive issue for him. nell

Ball me flippin eyes out in the loo.to be honest

Thanks for your reply Nell...the thing that bothers me is we have been together for 10yrs and in that time i have never gave any reason not to trust..they said they're scared they lose me..

sorry if I upset but In my opinion your partner should be with you all the way supporting you not arguing

Dragonlady..would you ball your eyes out if you were me or my partner? I have done it loads in the past two weeks.. :-(

Being a bloke I think your partner was way out of order , but then I am a wee bit older

Thank you very much Malc...i thought i done right been honest...so much for honesty been the best policy!!!

men are too complicated to understand,i give up

you ,i done a lot too in the past

Dragonlady...i will be honest here...my partner is female... Hope i havnt offended anyone!!

Either you trust someone or you don't. It's irrelevant who suggests what to whom. If your partner doesn't trust you, that's down to his insecurity not your honesty. nell

still a partner,,or dose she fancy the other person,sorry but first thing i thought

I have told my partner i cant be with them if they dont trust me...and that seem to be it...so to me they still believe im capable of doin something like that.. :-(

Have you spoken to her recently

just through the computer or text sge did call today for some plants from the garden then left..once away she texted saying ' i was free now' i think she is just playing mind games..as later through the comptuer she said she had forget to collect her belongings that was here..i replied saying she knew where they were if she wanted them for her to say 'just bin them'. I am hurting soooo much right now but i dont see why i should try and correct anything when i havnt done anything wrong apart from be honest..

cant really advise love ,dont comunicate with my husband very much,seems if i try nearly always ends iin arguments, is there anyone you can ask,the only thing i will say,talk in person not text or pooter,,in person,you can see reaction,cant on here

Could be a case of he doth protest too much! sorry to be so synical Jen

she doesnt know the guy Dragonlady....

i have asked others Dragonlady and they all say the same...she dont trust me.... and that hurts..i cant be with someone who doesnt trust me or thinks i could do such a thing..