General Chat

i am not very good at giving advice, i have been in your situation. all i can say is take one day at a time, we are all here for you. if you want to cry, do it, shout- do it, moan - do it, dont keep your emotions bottled up. my marriage broke up about the time we went bankrupt. luckily i was in a council house so the kids and i didnt lose our home. i am now in a resonable job, new relationship (toy boy!) i own the house and my eldest made me a grandmother last year.! things WILL get better, i never thought they would. every night i went to bed hoping that i wouldnt wake up. it was my children that kept me going at the time (and also my friends of course!) people have given you sound advice which is good. take care tina x

Oh Gwyn, I have just seen this. I can't think of any useful advice - but see that a lot has been given. Just want you to know I am thinking of you. take care ... :-) Joy

Just sending you my best wishes and a big hug. When you are feeling down its so nice to know you have friends who will listen to you and help unravel problems so just remember you are not alone. Come back and tell us how you are , have a moan if you need to, Just don't feel alone. We are here for you Chris xx

When you feel like this you think you are the only one that does feel like your feeling and that the black cloud your under won't lift,but it will. Hopefully things will get better,but keep talking and sharing your feelings and that will help you.

Sunshine I havent read the thread yet am just going too, But first wanted to say [[[[[[[[[[[[[[ hugs}}}}}]]]]]] and your words could be mine, Love cazxxxxxxx

just like to say a big thankyou to all who have given me such good advise.i would also like to add that i have read every message on hear..and thank so much for your support also,it's nice to know that people really do care about how you feel,and without your words of comfort to me..i would'nt of had a more positive day like today....love to you all gwyneth

Sunshine, I have the same problems as you. PM me if you want to. I'm available to chat/off load on and for mutual support. Viv

i would also like to thank bryan, who's such a wise man........

sunshine sorry to hear your down been there like so many others on here and i found some very good friends who helped me and they will help you aswell Rxxxxx tc