General Chat

hello my friend, god, when it rains, it really does pour...no one can cope with so many problems at once, you need to put them in order of importance, and write them down, with the most urgent at the top.then concentrate on them one at a time. i'm not very good on advicing about relationships, as i messed mine up, but there's some great ladies on here, that can advise you, of that i'm sure. you know you can always pm me, and i will listen, you can even swear if you want :o) bryan.

I agree with Angela, I suppose we have all been there to some point, but there is light at the end of the tunnel even though we dont think its there. What you need at the moment is to clear your mind, I know its hard at the moment, get your coat and go for a long quiet walk and just clear your mind and then do what Angela said. Big hugs Yvonne x

I don't imagine there's a person alive who hasn't had the bad times Sunshine, when they can't imagine where to turn next. You chose your lovely name though, so I'm sure you will find your way out the other side:)) Chrissie x

yes, been there. all i can suggest is break your problems down into small chunks - maybe write a list of all the issues you have to find solutions for. then go through them and think about all the ways you could solve each, or where you need to go for help to solve it. if an issue is too big to think about, break it down again into smaller parts and solve the parts. knock them off one by one and feel proud when you've sorted each and every one item. the reason you feel so bad if you are like me is that when you have so many problems your head spins and you can't use your usual common sense and judgement to see through them. breaking them into little pieces and working them through piece by piece really does help. Angela

It's the end of a chapter in your life Sunshine. Time for a new direction, chin up, it's the wheel of life turning and time for pastures new. Hopefully it will bring you some lovely rewards along the way. Think positive.................. Nanna-Moo-G :))

Been there too - you will bounce back - our motto is onwards and upwards. Mary in Spain

(((((hugs)))) Been there many times, get days like that now, where everything seems just too much to cope with. You are strong, and you will bounce back again.

I understand ....been there many times....

do you ever feel so empty,don't know where your going in life.... feel like you'v come to cross roads and don't know which one to take...well that's where i'm at, at the moment,all my life i'v felt that everything as alway's gon wrong.don't get me wrong i have had some happy years but they alway's seem to end and turn into devastation,i'v alway's felt i'v given 100% to whatever i'v achieved threw out my life.and i'v always been a fighter.i'v been knocked down so many times and at to climb up......but just lately i feel i'v got no fight left anymore.my 10 year relationship is about to end.i'm so woried about being made redundant,woried about where to live,as we need to sell the property we'r in at the moment,woried about am i going to be able to support my two teenage children...god where does it end i'm woried about so many things at the moment.can't see the woods for the trees.