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im new to this and need a lil helping hand on how to work it

You`ve started by putting a thread up. Just ask any questions--we`re all friendly , Ros

im looking for my biological dad any tips

just be careful - i recently found mine and it wasnt a welcomed find,so just be careful and i hope yours goes a lot better than mine x

im scared of that i have a letter that says he didn't want me 21 years ago (well along them lines)

it wasnt all bad news, his sister was really kind and insisted that i ignore him and the rest of the family were really welcoming whats made you decide to trace him? if you dont mind me asking

my half brother has just spent a week with him said it was ok i dnt think his new wife knows either

i get married in 5 months and may start a family need to know any genetic diseses are in the family & im curious

i found my dad through this site, get as much detail off your mum, is he on your birth certificate?

thats spooky the reason i decided to trace mine as i have a heart problem that no one else has in my family - i get married in 14 months and wondered if he wanted to come, it turned out he never told his wife about me

ok do you know the area he lives? that is a bit strange about you birth certificate

i have my mums birth citificate and both here parents are on it he is in somerset now was in burton years ago

does your mum have any info on him, like brothers,sisters etc?

urm i have 2 half brothers that live down the road from her (one has just spent a week with him) i have more in somerset my mum get cadgey wen i ask she says hes a waste of space

i had a look earlyer nither of my parents are (strange) all i have is his name so far

lol, we could have the same dad my mum refuses to even speak about him, have you asked your half brother if he would mind you contacting him? another option is to post a message like you did on here but on the trying to find tab

all he said was if i get on with him ill intrduce u to him (my brother is v.selfish)

mm,i would say the best possible way is going to be through your brother , has he always been in touch with him?

Lucy Few of us know if we have genetic problems - until we get into genealogy and start acquiring death certificates. If you want to know if you have any health problems, get yourself checked out. A heart check is probably the easiest. Everyone over 35 should have their doc have a listen and get their blood pressure checked from time to time, particularly if inclined to being heavy. Len

Hi Lucy, please keep in touch as i would like to know how you get on and i might be able to help