General Chat

last year my cousin committed suicide.it was a bad time for me and i could,nt deal with his death or the hurt we were all going through by his loss.and our loss.strump and her wonderfull people on the site that strump started helped me.they listened,and supported me.let me shout ,let me be angry.in return they supported me when i needed it most. i did,nt want to do this believe me.its my stuff and i did,nt want everyone to know. but i,ll be dammed if i will listen to peoples poison aimed at strump and her site and those lovely people who were good to me when i needed it the most .so i will not add it to the vile thread that some guttless joke has started.i will start my own. STRUMP AND ALL THE SITES MEMBERS........THANKYOUxxx

I didnt think we were allowed to mention suicide?

Take care Joy love xxxxx

Joy I know what you went through and you are a trouper as always my love. Unswerving and modest as always. You have my respect you know that. As does Donna. This whole situation disgusts me. You and others are the reason why we have so much to thank Donna for.I know what it has cost you personally to post this and I hope you are given the space and respect that you deserve because I know you won't have done this easily xx

Donna is an angel in trying to help my family, Wont say any more as will be a reason to use, Caz xxxx

Can I say Donna and many others, xxxxx

why its not a dirty word.he was ill.

wondered if gypsy can explain.............what so bad about the word suicide..........its not a dirty word. thanks everyonexxxxxxxxxxxxxx

so why the comment at the top

i don't need to justify my thoughts and feelings to anybody catherine xx

Nothing dirty about the word at all. I didn't say there was. I see no problem with anyone talking/writing about it, whatsoever.

Well if it avoids another argument I'll tell you! I believe you have been without an internet connection Joy. Well, the other day Lynda (with a Y) put a thread up about suicide after having watched a programme about it. I didn't read it but apparently alot of people replied and it was a very good thread and no arguments. But it was removed by GR because somebody had complained about it. So although it may be a subject you feel strongly about, I'm sure you can see how it might appear your timing and subject are bad considering the 'sides' and everything!

i put this thread up because someone and there site was got at today.you have no idea how hard that was for me to talk about it.yes i had no internet. but i dont follow lynda with a ys shadow,so forgive me if i had the nerve to bring this up. if genes want to delete this i am fine with it

sent for strump and myself from avril. RAINBOWS If I could catch a rainbow I would do it just for you. And share with you it's beauty On the days you're feeling blue. If I could build a mountain You could call your very own. A place to find serenity A place to be alone. If I could take your troubles I would toss them in the sea. But all these things I'm finding are impossible for me, I cannot build a mountain Or catch a rainbow fair But let me be...what I know best, a friend that's always there. _________________________________________________________________

Joy.......I was only trying to explain. Don't shoot the messenger

I deliberately kept that aspect of what happened on GR from Joy. Thanks to all for drawing it to her attention. She already said she was personally affected by suicide and she wasn't around now she knows FANTASTIC lovely. Joy hon please just switch off now my love. You didn't need the backlash of all this xx

I give up! Muffy.....I will not be taking the bait

jeanette,im sorry if my timing does,nt sit well.but nor did my cousins when he committed suicide

Joy babe switch off for the night eh? We'll talk on msn or carry on tomorrow. Sorry I wasn't 100% honest with you. I feel so bad now but I honestly I didn't say for the purest of reasons. Please don't be mad at me xx Jeanette sorry I just read your post. WHAT????????? like I care !!!!!!!!!! I am bothered about Joy and Donna not some petty argument !!!!!!!

now muff you will see why only a few ever knew hun.you watch now.it,ll be dragged up on a regular basis.xxx