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Joeva

Joeva Report 26 Jul 2013 20:55

Bobtanian

Point taken, I did try to keep it light but do object to an elocution lesson about youngsters applying to go to university. Why should their accent be a disadvantage when they have the ability and drive to succeed. :-S

Sharron

Sharron Report 26 Jul 2013 20:29

I am broader Sussex than most and my OH was born in Tottenham but had a kind of middle class education so is not ever so London. he thinks he speaks received pronunciation but I know better!

Anyway, in Namibia, formerly German speaking now English, everybody understood him, nobody understood me. Just like home really!

Bobtanian

Bobtanian Report 26 Jul 2013 19:58

Oh! fer hevvens sake he's quoting from the daily telegraph.........
why on earth cant you take a statement made,in the fun way it was intended, without getting all uppity and personal.......... I'm an ex londoner and where i am living it would be a godsend to hear a good cockney accent(or otherwise) instead of a multitude of eastern european languages...........

and d'you know the most irritating psuedo cockney accent? (to me anyway),
is mostly spoken by black london people.

er.......mostly of carribean origin I think

Joeva

Joeva Report 26 Jul 2013 19:30

Pot, kettle comes to mind :-D

♥†۩ Carol   Paine ۩†♥

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ Report 26 Jul 2013 18:55

sanc·ti·mo·ni·ous

Adjective
derogatory. Making a show of being morally superior to other people.
:-S

Wish I had thought of that word :-D :-D

Joeva

Joeva Report 26 Jul 2013 18:35


Thank you for your comment.

Now may I add mine. I think you are an inverted snob.

jax

jax Report 26 Jul 2013 18:35

If you are so proud of being "An Essex boy" why are you slagging it off?

RolloTheRed

RolloTheRed Report 26 Jul 2013 18:33

What a bunch of sanctimonious(deleted).

I'm off down the pub.
Evenin' all.

RolloTheRed

RolloTheRed Report 26 Jul 2013 18:30

Banking is a very good job.
It is just that Vince Cable, one the most stupid people in England, doesn't think so.
Give me Ed Balls anytime.

RolloTheRed

RolloTheRed Report 26 Jul 2013 18:28

wot u again ?

:-0

Joeva

Joeva Report 26 Jul 2013 18:27

?†? Carol Paine ?†?

I agree with what you have said but chose to ignore the generalization made in Rollo's posting. My three lovely granddaughters were born in Essex from parents that moved there from London after they married. They are very articulate and all have good jobs, not a casino banker amongst them ! Also they are very well mannered and I put that down to having a mum and dad that knew the meaning of the word respect.

Renes

Renes Report 26 Jul 2013 18:19

Yes Carol ... Exactly

and it does not matter how many languages one speaks, or, ones other half

or for that matter, their glottal stops ,,,

Ignorance is ignorance .....

RolloTheRed

RolloTheRed Report 26 Jul 2013 18:19

?

I am an Essex boy and very proud of it too.
Also like all the other natives I am a total realist.

Fire, fire,

RolloTheRed

RolloTheRed Report 26 Jul 2013 18:17

Yeah, I have a Masters degree in Computer Science and was born in Essex. Despite having degrees and charters and such I don't set much store by them. It is a bit like a diving board, the spring gets you started but it is the execution that counts.

The daily crush into Liverpool Street or the A12/A13 is not all that much fun so I moved to a sunnier place. Every time I go back as soon as I see Lakeside I remember why we moved. When I am in Hackney I realise why my GGF moved to Essex.

In an ideal world I'd have a nice big house near the sea at Burnham-on-Crouch, I'd drink in the Blue Boar in Maldon and spend my days sailing in and out of the Essex saltings while writing crime fiction. As it is not an ideal world sad to say that is all a dream but Essex remains close to my heart. I'd live there again if I could.

My cousin has got pretty close, she married a maths. wizard ( not a Brit ) and passes the time spending his money on horses. In Essex.

♥†۩ Carol   Paine ۩†♥

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ Report 26 Jul 2013 18:13

'Most of England hates Essex and its girls and boys, why I don't know, possibly jealousy of a great county. In order to get your kids in to uni. make sure they can get through an interview without the glottal stop. OTOH if they want to skip Uni and go straight into casino banking the stronger the Essex accent the better..'

Rollo, I do not come from Southend, the East end or Essex but find that remark quite offensive.

Money don't buy manners
Money don't buy sense
Just being low on tanners
Don’t make us b****y dense


No matter where you come from, how much money you have in the bank, everyone deserves some common courtesy. That is why I will not say more to you about the way you post.



jax

jax Report 26 Jul 2013 17:59

Eastenders is set in Walford a fictional place.

I was born in Walthamstow so were my parents and grandparents.

My parents were the first in the family to move out in 1960 now I think all my mums siblings have moved out to Essex.

I have lived in Essex for all but 12 years when I lived in Cambridgeshire and West Sussex...can't say I have noticed much of a difference in accents between these places

Joeva

Joeva Report 26 Jul 2013 17:55

Oh dear Rollo, my son was born and bred in London but he still managed to get a Bsc in Maths and Computer Science . He now lives in Essex :-D

RolloTheRed

RolloTheRed Report 26 Jul 2013 17:49

I have spoken fluent French since I was a small boy. My other half is French. Right from the off she could hear my London accent through my supposedly street wise French. Her Parisian accent is picked up straight away in Fulham, Putney etc even when she is speaking English.

OH also speaks fluent Spanish with a Murcia accent and the Spanish never guess she is French. My own Spanish gets me by but not much more.

I hear all the time about "Estuary accents" but to my copper ear English ( when it is spoken ) in Woolwich or Dartford is quite a lot different to Thurrock or Basildon which are much closer to Southend. There is a sort of hazy line between Cockney and Essex which for sure has been moving east ( East Enders is set in Walthamstow) but to my ear it has not got any further than Forest Gate.

All the same when I was learning Arabic I was amazed to discover that the average Brit cannot do a glottal stop. Without that Arabic is impossible.

Glottal stop: how do you pronounce the word "Bottle" ?
a. As spelt with yr tongue touching teeth to make the "t"
b. No tongue touching the teeth, "t" half way in the throat ?
If (b) you may well have been raised in Essex.

Most of England hates Essex and its girls and boys, why I don't know, possibly jealousy of a great county. In order to get your kids in to uni. make sure they can get through an interview without the glottal stop. OTOH if they want to skip Uni and go straight into casino banking the stronger the Essex accent the better.







Joeva

Joeva Report 26 Jul 2013 17:38

Cor blimey guvn'r I'm London born and bred and was told by a young Essex woman a few weeks ago when asked where I lived 'you don't sound like a Londoner' !
:-D The mind boggles !

Renes

Renes Report 26 Jul 2013 17:25



I lived for many years in Spain, and I think the strangest thing is listening to the Welsh, Irish and Scots speaking Spanish........
even when a fluent speaker of Spanish ...
One can still, instantly, detect their brogue

Which answered my own question, when I spoke Spanish ...

How did they know I was English ...............