General Chat

I gave a member access to my tree but for a number of reasons, now need to withdraw it. The person I opened my tree to has not opened their message yet ( about access). I have now withdrawn this request. Does it mean that they will not be able to see my tree as they have not accepted/ accessed or viewed my tree yet?
Your help would be appreciated.

They cannot see your tree from the moment you submit the access denial.... well, a couple of moments if GR is running slowly... but you get the gist. The recipient does not need to open anything at all.

Love

Daff xxxx

Sometimes when a person replies to my query they also send a message to say they have opened their tree, but I dont always open that message. I can just look at the tree through the reply they sent. If you know what I mean! It says at the top of the message something about 'allow this person to view my tree' and view their tree' or some such, and I just click on it. Sorry cant explain it better, it is after midnight and I should be fast asleep but just couldnt drop off so came on here instead.

Huia.

I suspect, like me, most people never bother to open the message. I usually just delete batch them all every now and again when I am having a clear out. I think once it has been deleted by the recipient, the sender sees it as read, that is if they haven't deleted it too.

What matters is whether you have a tick or a cross in the Column "Access to your tree" against their name when you view Your Contacts page.

Thank you all for your help! You have put my mind at ease!
Carol