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If this is Not what I'm supposed to say

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Maria

Maria Report 23 Apr 2009 23:33

stuff it anyway.

I have no knowledge of any "previous" on here

but I count Caz as a dear friend.

And if that means that anyone else decides they can't be my friend, well then they weren't really ever my friend in the first place.

Maria xx

Muffyxx

Muffyxx Report 23 Apr 2009 23:36

Maria.

MWAH.......

I won't go into details but obviously we don't share the same opinion on this one instance.

BUT of course as far as I'm concerned we're still mates? xx

SueMaid

SueMaid Report 23 Apr 2009 23:36

I wouldn't stop being your friend because of who you count as a friend - and I like to think we're mates. It would only matter to me if the person in question was doing things I thought were truly harmful and those things were condoned. I'm sure that's not what we're talking about here.

Sue x

Glenys the Menace!

Glenys the Menace! Report 23 Apr 2009 23:38


I've been on FB most of the time; what's happened now?
x

~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~  **007 1/2**

~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 23 Apr 2009 23:40

Don't know what's gone or going on at the moment...however, I like Caz very much and wish her all the best.

Maria

Maria Report 23 Apr 2009 23:42

Thankyou ladies.

I still count you as friends too.

But, here's an interesting thing, while I'm being open & honest (I do try to be!)

It might not have happenned tonight, and might not be related to anything on here.

But I've just noticed I've "lost" a friend on FB. Not Caz.

Maria xx

RodGee

RodGee Report 23 Apr 2009 23:44

your uplate lesley will need a lie in tomorrow lol xxx

Muffyxx

Muffyxx Report 23 Apr 2009 23:44

Won't be me Mrs.

I don't have you on there to begin with lololol

Try not to get yourself upset hon........it's the way of it on here at times isn't it? xx

SueMaid

SueMaid Report 23 Apr 2009 23:45

Would seem a few people have lost a "friend" on FB recently.

Sue x

Sue

Sue Report 23 Apr 2009 23:46

If I have fallen out with somebody that stays between us, doesn't affect anyone else either of us talk to.

However, if I see someone supporting another member who has been nasty either here or elsewhere then that would colour my view of that person and I would, and have, either avoid or irritate the hell out of them.

I am human and not a saint.

Sue x

Muffyxx

Muffyxx Report 23 Apr 2009 23:47

I feel a bit left out now...............I've still got a full set.

*sits with pin hovering to decide who to boot off *

*evil cackle*

Jax in Wales

Jax in Wales Report 23 Apr 2009 23:47

Maria

I have only just come back to the boards and dont know you but I will never not speak to you because of who you are friends with.

Many of us on here are friends with people who our friends may not get on with, but I have never been asked to take sides and have never expected it friends dont do that.

Im sure the majority will still continue to speak to you as they always have regardlees of who you are friends with.

Jax xx

edited to say: ive lost several fb friends from here lately, maybe I smell lol

~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~  **007 1/2**

~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 23 Apr 2009 23:50

~~~~Hello Rod~~~~~ I suppose I'd better go to bed now .. I have to be up early lol

JoyBoroAngel

JoyBoroAngel Report 23 Apr 2009 23:51

you win some you lose some jax
swings and roundabouts

but life goes on xxx

RodGee

RodGee Report 23 Apr 2009 23:53

maybe it the sea air Jax lol xx

Maria

Maria Report 23 Apr 2009 23:53

The fb friend I have lost is someone I have never even spoken to on here.

As I say it may be nothing at all to do with what's been going on here.

And I have always said (and always will) I am not in any gangs on here & choose my own friends,

I just thought with what's been said & done tonight I wondered if it was relevant, (ie that person deleting me) I'm probably putting 2 & 2 together & making 47.

Maria x

X Lairy- Fairy

X Lairy- Fairy Report 23 Apr 2009 23:54

Jax ****sniff** yup u soo do lol x

Jax in Wales

Jax in Wales Report 23 Apr 2009 23:56

Joy sure does hun xx

Rod dont seem to bother the surfers lol

Rosie it must be me belly button lol

Maria Try not to worry about it hun, maybe the person is taking a break x

Silly Sausage

Silly Sausage Report 23 Apr 2009 23:57

Jax I am so glad you said that abut never asked to take sides as I have never asked anyone too ever on here or un real life on my account and will infact I have avoided discussing the subject as not to make them feel uncomforable.....

Muffyxx

Muffyxx Report 24 Apr 2009 00:01

Ditto Hayley.

I'm a big girl now and I fight my own battles.

If I fall out with someone who I once considered a friend.......unless severely pushed I will always TRY to do it off the boards.......to stop people feeling awkward.......and because I'm not a fan of publicising private convo's..........I'm a bit old fashioned like that lol.

Maria please don't upset yourself hon..........you'll be seen no differently tonight as you were last night .......I'm sure of it xx