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As a few of you on the boards know me,there as so many new names on here but for the oldies,I have at last decided to try again for accsess to my grand children whom iI have had not contact with for the past 120 weeks,each card I send or letter is returned un opened with an insult added here and there on the envelope,I gave in last time but now the children are old enough to go into judge and chambers Im going for it,they are my blood and I cannt live much longer without seeing them,its slowly killing me.
Emmybaby

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you go for it emmy

and i hope you have all the luck trying,

once the kids get to know you, theyll make their minds up themselllves,

bless you, i hope you get to spend time with them,
xx

Good Luck ... hope you get access

Emmy,
That is awful - you have every right to see your grandchildren.
Unless you are a danger to them (and that seems unlikely) you should have as much right - if not more - than the parents.

Emmy,
Steam in there every Grandparent has the right to see their Grandchildren, you don,t need a top notch lawyer, you need someone who will fight your case and an understanding Judge/Chairman of the bench.

BOB.

Lots of luck love, keep us posted and stay strong. I know how much you miss the grandchildren.

love
Lizxx

I well remember your heartache when you posted before about not seeing the children. I hope it goes well for you and also for your grandchildren who must miss you too.
Sue xx

hi just read your thread want to wish you luck i know how it feels in same situation their xmas presents ect are still sat here and it does kill you i cry everday for them its so unfair anyway hope all turns out well for you and they will soon be back in your life as they should be x

Sadly children are used as weapons all too often, it should be made a crime in my humble opinion.

Good luck to you and I hope you soon get to resume that very important (for all of you) loving relationship with your grandchildren.

I wish you all the luck in the world, Emmy. I can imagine your pain at not seeing your grandchildren. I would be devastated. BC XX

Best of luck Emmy. Some one I know has just been to court and won access to her grand children. Don't give up

Marcelle

For your grandchildren's sake, I do hope all goes well for all of you.

All the best, Georgina

Good luck - hope you will soon be reunited with your grandchildren
Love Mary xx

hope all goes well for you and you get access, it must be heart breaking for you.

Ann
Glos

Hiya. Good luck, and I hope you're keeping all those cards etc. that you had returned ............... it would go in your favour later on when the grandchildren find out that Gran sent them things.

Take care.
x

I wish you well and hope it all works out for you and your Grandchildren.
from a different Helen x

I wish you well and if there's any justice in this world you will granted access to your grandchildren, you have every right to see them, I as an auntie was told I could apply for access to see my nieces and nephews and in my personal opinion grandparents are even more vital to children.

Best of luck xx

Unfortunately Emmy grandparents have no rights under the law as I know to my cost. I have not seen my youngest grandson for 50 weeks. I write to him and as far as I know he is given the cards and letters...at least they are not returned to me.

He is 9 years old and I live in hope that one day, before it is too late, he will question why a person whom he saw almost every day of his first eight years is no longer a part of his world.

I wish you all the luck in the world and hope that your case succeeds.

Jean.

Jean I was under the impression that the law had changed in the last few years and Grandparents could apply for access just as an absent parent can? I have to admit that part of me thinking that is due to a Jeremy Kyle show I saw where he stated that things were different now and Grandparents had rights, so I could very well be wrong.
I wouldn't be without my kids Grandparents being in their lives. They have brought so much enrichment to them. And even now at 14 and 15 they still have at least one evening each a week there having tea and just generally spending nice time with them.