General Chat

hes second - hes the best 34years married,

yeh we equal, in everything except money his name is scrooge

Brad Pitt mmmmmmmm lol



Frankie, I agree with you, it is better to be on your own, so many people settle for 2nd best because they dont like to be alone.

Joan thats great, sorry he is a scrooge x

Eleven more months for Golden - glad to say wife isn't smug and I'm not downtrodden or miserable..
If only we can reach the Ruby.... John x

Awww John that is brilliant, you will reach your ruby - now we are all wanting to know what the secret is?


Congratulations for your Golden though


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Awww John, well done:))

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You know Angel, I don't think there is a 'secret' - just two lucky people I guess. One thing is certain, we have never laughed and enjoyed ourselves so much as we have in the past ten years, and with that, I think we found what love was all about... Sounds a bit Yuk doesn't it ? But it's true...John x

HI JANEY
IM JUST A BORN LOSER

AND IN HAVE NO CHOISE

NOWHERE TO GO
NO ONE HAVE ME ,,LOL

Cheers Kitty - I'll be over the moon if you will say the same thing in ten years time.. lol... John

John

No thats not yuk, sound's brill, good for you so you have found that special someone?


Gwen, your not a looser, and yes you do have a choice, there is that special person out there waiting for you xx

WELL HE BETTER HURRY

We have a leg each of a pr of trousers,,,,,,,,,,:}}}

Gwen, he will!!!

Kay, pmsl thats cool - thats what I call equal lol

How do i know he's no 1 ?? because we have been married for 50 years and we are each others best mate. we are equal in all we do and treat each other with respect..

So guess I was lucky when I met him at aged 18

Shirley

Hi Shirley, well done you - so what is the secret?

Angel

Think its treating each other as we would like to be treated ouselves and talking to,not at , each other .

Thats not to say we havent rowed or still do .he is getting a bit "Victor" in his old age but most of the time I can not rise to the bait .
I was a "moo" too in my younger days with PMT but he knew when to keep stum.

So its give & take i think and above everything being best mates.

Shirley

John.....................I really hope I will be saying that in 10 years and ten months time:)))

Shirley...............same here, but 34 years of marriage.

We also compromise when we have totally different ideas, but above all, we are the best of friends.

*sighs happily and tries not to look smug!* LOL

Shirley thats great and Kitty are you looking a little smug lol

I have been lucky, we both have a good sense of humour and can laugh about things and work together to sort everything out........I still look forward to hearing him come home, I just love him.....

Janey

As the frog who fell of the lilly pad just as the princess went to kiss him

did i miss out on being first i will never know but most important if i had been first then would i still be first now

prolly not

If i was unhappy would i leave now that is a though eh if my kids were all grown up and happy then yes i would

but i think every one deserves a crack at being happy, so if you can find happyness then take it with both hands remember janey some people only live once

A & F

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Awwwwww you a frog Steve lol I doubt it very much.

But like you say, we all deserve to be happy and treated well as we are not here for long


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