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Dear Dawnie,
sending you love, dont know what else to say,
bless you and your family.

Thinking of you Dawnie and your Nan.

xxxxx Kaz

Love and hugs to you at this trying and upsetting time.

God Bless
Tina xxx

My heart goes out to you Dawn as this is all so fresh in my mind from my mothers illness and passing away.

Just stick in there love

I know your hurting like mad but at least you get the chance to say goodbye .

Keep in your mind and heart the good days and the love.

(((((((((GIANT HUGS))))))))))))

Malc

Its so so painful seeing them like that isn't it!!!!!!!!

My thoughts are with you and may your nan meet the love of her life again soon

xx

l know how you feel my mum has demensia and is in hospital waiting for a bed in a nursing home l try to visit most days as she hasno one else near it breaks my heart she tells me every day that she wishes she was dead if shes not shouting at me then shes asleep some days like today l wonder why l go so often l know she cant help it its the illness but its not nice to be called so many horrid things..
lm trying to get her in a local home but there doesnt seem to be any room at the inn so will phone some more on monday

Dawnie, I feel so much for you at this time. A big part of my work is end-of-life care and that includes looking after the relatives.
Have you spoken with anyone about your nan's pain?
Prayers and positive thoughts for your nan, you and all the family.
xxxx

My Mum died 3 years ago on valentines day(dementia) she said I cant go on much longer.I just said Mum you are very tired why don't you just have a nice long sleep.I said goodbye and drove 6 hours home .She died just before I got home.Wish I had stayed those few hours but I feel I had said it was ok for her to go.She just went to sleep.
It's an awful time for you.Just be strong
Helen

Dawnie I have sent you a pm

Dawnie, I am the emotional one in my family hence why I cant see people as the end approaches,

You know where I am if you need to chat.

Fi x

absolutely heartbreaking isn't it, all you can hope for is a peaceful end to her suffering - my Dad wanted to die and it broke my heart when he told me one day in hospital "Go home now and forget all about me" Makes me cry now just thinking about it - how could I, but he didn't want me to grieve

Prayers for your Nan
((hug)) for you
Be strong

Jen x

Gawd, Caz, sorry - we must be on a similar wavelength and posted roughly the same time. Wasn't copying you, honest. :-))
Hope your lovely Nan gets the peace she deserves soon, Dawn. Another (((HUG))) over cyber space.
x

I pray for a gentle end for your nan,Dawnie, I also pray peace for you, remember the blessings you have by her being in your life,

((((((((((((((((X)))))))))))))))))))

Jean x

Dawn, it is so hard when you know somebody you love wants to leave you behind, and it is even harder to see them suffering. It was the same with my dad, he was 93 and in the end just more or less turned his face to the wall and went to sleep. He was never the same after my Mum died - they were married 60 years all but a month and he couldn't get on with life without her.

I hope it wont be too long before she gets her wish and I hope the end wont be too hard for you.

Lots of (((((hugs))))) for you.

Ann
Glos

Dawn,
am sending you loads of hugs and kisses at this difficult time.

(((((((((((((((((((((((love))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Helen

Sending positive thoughts to you Dawn,
Prayers for your nan.

I was close to oh nan, was with her when she passed
it was heart breaking my heart goes out to you.

((((((((((hugs)))))))))

((((Hugs))))

Dawn love, you must eat, keep your strength up. I know how helpless you feel; when my Nan was just wasting away, my Mum (her daughter) said it's so unfair, as we put animals to sleep to save them suffering. That was in 1980; my darling Nan passed shortly after. I'll bet Grandad was waiting to take her hand ............
x

Dawn, love, I am so sorry, my Nana was the same and it is utterly heartbreaking.


Caz xxx