General Chat

I was again very sad to see Stephens threads deleted, I never meant to upset anybody, I just tried to prevent others going through the pure devastation that I have, I am going to be blatantly honest here, I am destroyed, losing a Son to something like SADS just cannot register with me, no reason, fit and fine one minute, gone the next, and on his way to buy my Mothers Day present, he never got there, he died instead. It is two years very soon, and leading up to it is worse than ever, the tears and the fears for my other children, my nephew has it, my gandchildren still have not been tested. So many of you have been behind me relentlessly, Maggie, Jude, sorry but so many I cannot mention them all. Not only have they backed me they have also supported me. Colin came out of the blue, his and Donna's e-mails and private special things they done, none of you know about, but hey, they and many more have been my lifeline, I have even surprised myself that I have managed to keep it together for so long, many many times, like today, I have thought of giving up, but it is people like you that keep me going, I stay in now, I hate going out, so my computer and you all have become my life. Somehow me and Colin have found a connection through Stephen, and I believe he has had a bit of hassle today, you are so wrong if you think he done anything wrong, far from it. Stephens thread is gone, I am upset, in fact deveatated, but I can only just say thank you all for your support, please do not answer this as reading kind thoughts will upset me even more, now I cannot type as the tears are in the way, but to all those that have backed me, I thank you sincerelyXX Please do not lay any blame on Colin XX

I just hope that none of the people who object to your threads never lose anyone to SADS.

I know I keep saying it to you Gillian, but you have to keep fighting.

Colin is a darling.

You are too

Please don't let this set you back.......you've been so strong........

Sending you (((hugs))) and my support xx

colin your a star

(((hugs))) to both of you

keep plodding on

you will get there in the end

never give up both of you

sending my surport as always
thinking of you
.................rosexx.............

you have been through so much babes

stay strong and keep on fighting

sendign you a gentle (((hug)))

luv
stray
xxx

Will always be here Jen,


Colin, you are the best,


Caz xxxx

Not sure what has occured, Big ((HUG)) for you and Colin.

You will always have my support and if there is anything I could do for you please don't ever hestiate to say.

I wish I had the right words for you Jennifer.

LOVE AHD HUGS X X X

keep going jen

be strong for us all xxx

I'm sorry Jennifer

But no one *Hassled* Colin at all !

Colin was going all guns blazing at genes on a thread, The worry was it could have ended up with you losing the right to post any thread at all if he'd antagonised gr any further over the matter.

It was also unfair of Colin to say members were thinking more of silly threads than of children being lost which also grated a bit.

Some people were going to post a fresh thread for you, but a few of us diddnt want your right to post your own thread taken away because of Gr's limitations they set you.

Not one of us was happy about your threads removal, but felt the wrong lanes were being followed which could have compromised your cause..

Have you any explanation for the removals from GR ?.

Maggy

Its a bit unfair at this stage before facts are known to run down the so called complainants.

Even if some did complain, who's to say that they are not going through similar and were distressed reading the threads ?

It could of course been removed by Gr themselves (who also removed a thread on chat) maybe they were doing a sweep of the boards or something

I hope you sort it out with gr,

E x

Mildred with due respect,'No one hassled Colin at all' Since when have you had access to my pm inbox? and as far as 'going all guns blazing at gr' exactly what do you mean? Anything I said, I said on my own thread and thus would be the one held to blame...no-one else. How dare you suggest that I would or could contribute to the removal of Stephen's thread

Elaine, I can only assume why the threads were removed because GR won't reply to my emails.

I nudged your thread many times for your son.... U have touched my heart x My son is nearly 18 and severely disabled and he has never spoken, I want u to know I CARE x x I watched the thread all day...... Your special x
Thinking of u tonight x
Julie.

Hi Jen
My heart goes out to you love .
Colin your a star
take no notice of the negative people on gr
theres always a few .
Jen (((((((hugs))))))
Rosex

Colin.......... Your one extra special person x
People like you and Jen make GR what it is.... u touch our hearts and our souls x x Bless u both x

i second that billys mum
well said
Rosex

hi jen ,hes smashing hun,and your right to channel your energy into this.i for one am so very proud of you girlie.we all like colin,hes a good man,take care both.xxxxhugs joy

i third it

blushes and heads under the duvet,,,as have to be up early...but before I go just like to point out that I haven't done anything!

Gill I don't really know you, but started repling to your posts about Sept last year, about Derek having his back op. I have learnt about Stephen over the months and how you have tried to help others never have to suffer like you, and your family. You deserve all the support you can get. Can't understand why the threads have been deleated. Don't stop, you need to keep sads in the news as much as for the awareness of others as for your own self to help you carry on. Regards Carole x