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how about you tell the one who is cheating that you know and that you are going to tell. tell him he has to tell his OH or you will.

Ann
Glos

a tip for you

when she finds out

LOOKED SHOCKED

dont ever let on you know

A proper no win situation. No one knows i know so just keep quiet i think.

my niece going thro this now she works with the three people

and she said makes her sick seeing the lass being so nice n goign out drinkin with her friend when she is sleepign with her boyfriend

everyone has told her she should tell her but i said no they always shoot the messanger

i said maybe an annonamous phone call of sumone but not my neice should tip her off

i had this problem

but everytime i went to tell her

i backed out

i used to say wendy sit down

i have something to tell you

then i would bottle it

how could i break her heart

somebody else told her in the end

and she said it was my fault

for not telling her how could i

A no-win situation unfortunately. I've been in the same position and lost a good friend because I didn't tell her but I know if I'd told her she would have hated me too. You could let their partner know what you know.
S

It's a difficult one and likely to cause pain whatever happens.
Personally........I think I would have to say something.
Kittys got the right idea I believe.
Amanda

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Tell your mate & end his marriage or keep quiet, or best mate finds out you knew, then hates you?

Hi Kitty,

Tricky one this, dont want to interfere but dont want to lose a friendship either??????????

I would give them, say, a day to tell their partner or I would......................I couldn't sit back and say nothing.

xx

If you found out his/her partner was cheating & you are mates with the pair of them?