General Chat

Malc,

Sorry love....you are a little in limbo at the moment because your mind does not really want to come to terms with losing your mom, sad but true.
If it is any consolation I talk to my daughter daily, I chat to her about seeing her grandchildren and how lovely they are, which of course she already knows .
Sue passed on 3 years ago...

I have found a little consolation by having Sue's photo sitting on my unit in the lounge..she is a focal point, especially when it comes to having friends, family and even strangers in my home. Her name and circumstances are brought up quite openly, she is still one of us!

Time is a great healer, as it talking openly about your feelings which is what you are doing right now.

We are all here for you, we understand how you are feeling because most of us have been there and we will listen....

Just remember you do not stand alone xxxxxxxx


JoycePxx

Memories are such lovely things
They come back day day by day
They cant get lost,
They dont wear out
They never fade away,

Sometimes memories are all we have so we can
say Thanks for the memories

There is healing in your grieving Malc

love and prayers Jean x

Everyone has said it - you are normal just grieving. (((((HUGS))))
Love Mary xx

I would imagine mum coming round the corner & walking down the street, lifting up her chin when her headscarf rode up. (I still have that scarf)

This went on for years, sometimes I would deliberatly put that memory there to bring back that "Normal" feeling of things being alright.

Your grieving is normal Malc, so is being able to talk about it which will help with the healing process.

E x.

Dear Malc

Memories are precious and you are just going through the natural grieving process.

Love and hugs

Linda x

so sorry you've lost your mum,malc, with both my parents, i found it got easier after the first year, but of course the memories are always there..iris

aw malc just wanted to give u n jackie a big (((((((hug))))))


time is a great healer hun

luv
stray
xxx

Malc, my lovely mate,

I have yet to go through what you are right now but i dread it utterly.

I agree with everyone that what you are feeling is perfectly normal,

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Caz xxxxxxxxxxxx

Malc you are so grieving,
Mate it will take time,
To get over your precious Mum,
You think of all the time,
It will get much better,
Think of all the good things,
Mum wouldnt want you to be so sad,
She is resting peacefully now,
And soon you will not be sad.

Davex
God bless you Malc and your Mum she must have been proud to have a fine son like you.

its like every one is saying malc its normal i belive our loved ones never leave us we cant hold them but our hearts remember them at the begining of our loss the memories are painful but as time pass malc you can think of your loveones and you will smile at the gift of memory of the precious times you had loving thoughts sent to you lilymoon

As everyone has said Malc, this is absolutely normal..I would walk in the room for years and still expect to see her sat in her armchair...or think 'oh must go and tell mum that' over something i had just seen or heard...it will pass...and then there will be another stage of grieving....

be kind to yourself....

Rose x