General Chat

Hi Mary, Hi Caz, sorry got to go to bed, I am tired, been a long muddly day.
Getting light here now, nice coloured sky out there behind the tree line across the field.
Caz, how about fruit teas, they are nice and might be ok for your kidneys, Mary might know more about that.

Mary, hon, hope you and yours are ok. Haven't done much this week, been muddly and non productive, but tomorrow is another day, well it will be after I have slept but it will be today lol
love and hugs to all
Lizxxxx

Hi gang, sorry I have not been on for a while, I have been reading and keeping up with you all though. I don't want you to think Iv'e stopped caring but at the moment I am finding it very difficult to type, it seems every bone and muscle in my body is screeching in pain. I really am at rock bottom now and don't know how to climb back up. I can't even make a cup of tea to console myself as doctor told me to cut down to three a day as my kidneys are not working so well with the chemo. Can't hold the cup properly anyway.
I didn't mean to say all this but hey, tell it as it is. To those who I pm regularly I will get back to you as soon as I am able.
Might have a giggle on Tuesday, seeing chiropodist and I can't wait to see her face when she sees my blistered peeling feet lol. She always says how soft and good condition they are, she's in for a shock lol.


Love to all

Caz xx

nudge to get us off page 9!!!!

evening all

I hope you all had a good day

((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) to all

Gill

hi deanna my husband was 23 when his mum had the baby and not in contact with her he never told me about the baby as he was told he had died and he didn't want to talk about him my hubby is 61 now and to find out was a big shock he is very upset because if he had told me ages ago we may have found him by now they need more info from my husband before he can get the certificate

love and hugs
carolina xx

It was my Mum in the police car!!!!
Mary

Carolina.... that is such a sad story.
was he very upset?
I know that the lies told us by our elders can cause dreadful pain when we find out as adults......
Will he be able to have the certificate now?
Or will he have to start searching if him?

Good luck to you both.
Deanna XX

Deanna
No I think it was Eileen but excuse me if I am wrong, It was my dad-Donald though.
Iron tabs make me constipated then I get piles!!! but I might try this magic remedy that everyones on about
Evening all
Janet

Janet I loved that story about your dad.... Donald duck! LOL
That is the type of thing that I would love to happen to my loved ones.
If there is a life hereafter.... then I will be laughing my *wings off*...

And is it the same Janet?
IT WAS NOT EVEN A JANET........
SORRY EILEEN!
I am such a nutter. ;-0)
The story about the police car and the ashes.... it was someone else's mother... but sorry I can't remember whose mum.....

Whoever it is will you remind me please?

What I was doing Janet is saying that MY MUM.... would not have been pleased.... no way.
And the NHS DOES provide towels, but most people take their own in... but my mum..... wanted her better towels in public. ;-0)

Tell you what Janet.... had she given the other ones (the ones which were not good enough for public scrutiny) to me
They would have been the best towels in my house!!

Allan came to bed last night at the same time as usual, but got up again 1/2 hour later!!
Stayed up and watched TV.... and came to bed late.
*but he is not upset* you understand!

Hope all you and yours are doing well.
I don't mean to ignore anyone in here. I just have so much to read when I come on
and the thread is usually on page 6,090!!

Chin up all of you, we all have our up and down days....
get yourself some iron tablets... and your down days will be fewer!! ;-0)

Deanna XX

Hi everyone
Gail, it was my wedding anniversary yesterday too--9 years this time (25 with last one) Not everyone remembered and o/h wasn't too pleased, think there might be some problem there but i'm not asking, as long as he remembers I am not worried. Difficult with 2nd marriages to know when to hold your tongue!!.
well I have done another instalment of my wall painting but being very good and not pushing it.
Got a very busy few days coming up so having to take things a bit careful.
Kerry what you have done for your daughter will pay back 100 fold, congrats to her on her results too.
Ann have a good holiday
Kathy your son sounds very reminicent of my step-son, I could scream sometimes
Carolina, I found something out via Genes, a long story with a mixed ending, I never expected to find skeletons but you never know.
Love to everyone else
Janet

afternoon every one eileen hi you doing better than me at rembering everyones name and messages i can only just about rember a few lol yes ann have a great hol , and gill how are you today ?hope alls well hi carole ,yes eileen carole must have a very good memory and shes allways helping and suporting ,of everyone xx hope everyone on here is having a good day xxx elaine xxx

Good morning/afternoon

I hope you have a nice day today, I am not the best so will try not to stay on boards for long lengths if time today.

(((((((hugs))))))))) to all

Gill

Ann have a lovely holiday, Just spotted you post. We will miss you.

MIL did not hear at the time but someone told her (not me) and she has had words with SIL since.

Carolina: You will uncover many skeletons in tracing trees, I have uncovered many, some can be hurtful. At least there is a chance he is still alive and that is a plus. The lies/untruths, unfortunatly do hurt and will continue to do so. Try to look for the reasons behind them first, before making a decision. The reasons could have been money or emotional. I really hope you find the lost brother. My MIL had a brother who was fostered out in the early 1900's, he had passed away when I tracked him down, he lead a happy and fruitful life and MIL was very happy to know this. Now I am trying to track another brother as well, all we know is that he is still alive, and there is still hope of finding him.

Gail

Just a quick pop in, still very tired.

OH and I had our wedding anniversary yesterday, yeah I know the 1st of April. At least he never forgets.

I have been trying to catch up but at the moment am having trouble with concentration. Am in overload with pain levels as have not been pacing myself over the last few days, I think it is from all the feather spitting.

I received a lovely thankyou card this morning from MIL's niece, I gave her and her brother a copy of family tree, what I could print out, was a shortened version, due to shortage of ink. It was really lovely and thoughtful.

Hugs to all

Gail

hi all i hope every one is feeling good welcome to the new people sorry i haven't been on i have been helping my husband look for his half brother the thing is i wish i didn't start looking for him because my husband told me last week he had a half brother but he died as a child so me being me i looked for his birth info and death info i found his birth info so my husband went for the certificate when he got there he was told they have it but he can not purchase it as they have to phone head office today he got i phone call saying the head office will contact him because they need some info from him so it seems that he didn't die i think he was adopted i feel upset because my husband was told lies all his life by his mum and went through life thinking he was an only child and on top of everything else my husband as gone through and is going through i think i have made things worse

love and hugs to all

carolina xx

HI gang

Late shift coming in !!
I am having to do some running around with son being home . Nothing pleasant only clinic and hospital and chemist .
I could murder Jamie I got him a form to fill in last year which would exclude him from paying prescription charges since he is is a studend .Did he bother to fill it in NO so today cost £10
When do they ever learn ??
Having said that when do I ever learn . Having had back problems for weeks I went out yesterday cleaned the car , cleaned the garage and because I am super woman chopped down two tree trunks which have been in my garden for years . Yes back sore today !!
I hope you are all feeling ok . This gang list is so long that I don't remember every one's names but I wish you all love and the hope that things will get better .
Liz hope you are feeling better .You know where I am if you need .
Carole thanks for the pm you are so kind to every one . take care of yourself .
As I said our members here are now
many and I think it is great that we have a pleasant board and that we can help each other . Long may it continue
Love and hugs to all
Kathy xxxx

thank you Kerry.

Ann
Glos

Ann i hope your all packed and ready to go...Have a wonderful holiday and enjoy the sun....See you when you get back and tell us all about it..

Yes she is...Shes been working so hard and its paying off as her teachers are so pleased with her..Not sure where she gets it from as i was not good at school, She's making me very pround of her..Not only with work but she's turning into a beautiful young woman..

Kerry

Oh if it was a special treat that is fine. five stars wow!! is she doing AS this year?

ann
Glos