General Chat

Now what would Hayley be saying right now??


Out with anger
In with love

do the actions too

Out with anger,
In with love...

Under normal circumstances I'd be right with you on that one Catherine. I have been cross with people and disliked people before. This is the first time I have ever felt burning hate. And I don't like it one bit and I want it gone. It's horrible.xx

Sue xx

TW lol. thank you for the drip. Always a good anaesthetic for me is the ol shiraz lol xx

Awww Malc. Don't know what to say hon. Sendng you a ((hug)) anyhow xx

I hate someone with all my heart Muffy.
God help him if we ever meet again.
I will probably end up in jail

just come on got friends round, so sneaky look for me. soz muffs.

can't in real life say I hate anyone-HATE is such a strong term and to me it is only termed very loosely.
I dislike people but would not use the term hate. cos hate to me means you will never like them forever. And I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. maybe I am narrow minded but then that's my view


catherine
xx

Yep!

Done so for 25 years, didn't hurt me, hurt one of my brothers. It eventually killed him.

Trouble is I have to see the old cow on web sites, and used to be on TV and radio too damn often. I cannot tell you how much hatred all the family felt.

Sue xxx

If you do anything now you will be sinking to their level, and you are better than that, always remember.
The right thing has been done...let it be and just be there with the cuddles...and the you know what lol

Fits intravenous drip with box of shiraz*

I really want to be at that stage Daff where I can just laugh it off. IF it were aimed at me I'd find it dead easy to - but it's not. My protective instincts are on full alert and I don't like how I feel just at the mo. I know I'm letting them win by wasting the energy on them and your advice is good. My head is just about 3 steps behind logic at the mo I think xx

pmsl TW shove a bit of shiraz on the gag hon. lol xx

Well said Daff, its what I was trying to say before.

I have hated, and felt so much guilt as a result. I found that in the end it was just taking over my life and thoughts. Then I decided that it wasn't worth the stress and the energy. I worked out that I could pity this person, because it was her who was the one who was missing out.

I get the occasional pang of guilt these days, but i can now talk myself out of it. And she has reaped what she sowed.

Don't let it eat you up, Muffy. Hating someone so much takes away something from you.. they don't give a toss.

Love and hugs

Daff xxx

*sits on Muffy and gags her*

Diana if it were aimed at me I'd be as cool as a cucumber but it's not - it's aimed at one of the people I love most. I can't cope with keeping my mouth shut but I have to. gggggggrrrrrrrrrrrxx

Just wait, you won't do any good now. See how the land lies tomorrow. Stop winding yourself up. lol

pmsl TW. Sorry I have a big gob but at least i'm not phoning the person and telling them eh? I want to be calm and serene

*ahhhhhhhhhh emmmmmmmmmmmmm*

see i'm meditating too lol xx

Sweets NO ONE is worth the energy hate needs to put into action!

Pity them for their faults instead its easier and takes less energy!

xx

Ahem! What did I say?

not talking about people on site i'm talking real life. Do you hate anyone REALLY? I do and I'm trying really hard to overcome it - I don't like to feel like this at all as it is so powerful I resent the hold it has on me. Anyone else feel like this? Or if you have and have overcome it - how did you manage it? xx