General Chat

Gerri x Take care lots of love and best wishes. Speak privately instead of on here, not the place to talk 1 -1 Pat x

Right at this moment in time I feel I never want to hear from her again but Im a softy and know that I will weaken.Given time. Paula ripped up her birthday card but....I cannot bring myself to unwrap her pressie and put it away. It BELONGS to her. What she diddnt know was that I have a photo of her at a couple of weeks old and had planned on giving her this when we met.Also we found out something more about her B.fathers family only the other day. One part of me wants to post the pic on to her....the other part of me wants to keep it ( I almost said...rip it up! I could never do that, dont worry lol)I'm still mad. Carole has seen pics of Paula/me and our Mother. We havent a clue what she looks like. I hurt, WE hurt! so... When Carole decides the time is right....she knows how to contact us. Lets hope she's not too late. She missed meeting her Mother by only a couple of months. Fingers crossed she doesnt miss BOTH her Sisters too.(Paula isnt cured) Gerri x

oh gerri ! i am absolutely gutted for you ! how awfull, how disapointing ! you must have been so upset ! what now ? leave the ball in her court ? or leave it a while and see .... sue. [ so upset for you !]

Yet another text from Carole.... Her Father is VERY ill in Eastbourne and she will ring me when she returns home. Yeah right!... and Im the queen mothers Aunty!!!! a size 8 and Camilla is booootiful!!!! A still mad Gerri x

Gerri, how truly, truly awful that is. We were all so happy waiting for the joyous news of your reunion. I am speechless, and so sad for you. XXBC

I am SOOoo mad! The night before the meeting, she asked me to phone her in the morning. I DID....over and over again!!!! No answer. From 10am till 11.20am.She new that we planned on leaving here at 11. I told her that if she was going to change her mind for what ever reason to please let me know before 11am. The previous nights convo was her saying that she was in agony with her hip and maybe she needed a hip replacment.(last week it was a brain tumour.The week before that she was being stalked) My/our elder sister is recovering from cancer treatment and is in a wheelchair and still very ill. This has been like a militery operation getting her from her house(milton Keyens) to my house(stevenage) then to make the journey into London. As she(Carole) diddnt answer her phone by 11.20am I made the decission not to make the journey. Instead I took Paula to visit an old aunty in Linconshire. We got a text at 5.40pm saying she was on the tube when we rang earlier.She had given the 2 bunches of flowers to 2 old ladies in Hyde park and she cried cos we were not there!!!!! and now she was going to leave Hyde park and go home.POPPY COC!!!!!! We were due to meet Carole at 2pm and last night she only had 9p to her name!!!! Paula and I sent one text saying....'We are not going to reply to any of your texts right now because we are too cross!' I hope she had a wonderful birthday........NOT! Gerri x (off to work now)

Best wishes on your big day, could not imagine what you must be feeling. My husband recently found out that his father was married before and he has two half brothers somewhere but now both his parents are gone and I think he would like to know about them but is aprehensive about what to do. His brother does not want to admit this even happened. Both my husband and brother in law never knew until their mother recently passed that their father was ever married before, well kept secret. Their dad has been gone for 26 years. Talk about a surprise

Oh I forgot to tell you!!!! I had to find a small pressie for her birthday. I found a silver photo frame thats made up of jig saw pieces. ......joining up at last?...get it? get it? :o)) lol I've made a colarge (oops sorry spelling) of alot of Mums old pics, all different ages of her. I'll try take a pic of it and add it to the others on Monday evening. Gerri (going to bed now) xxx

Thankyou thankyou thankyou everyone :o))) Also thanks to aunty Pat ;o) lol for nudging up for me. BC we are meeting at the cafe on the serpentine (where ever that is!!!!) Im sure I'll find it.(I'll be the goodlooking one ;o) ) lol Am I right in thinking that there is a huge underground car park under Hyde Park? Rest assured.....I'll be adding a message here to let you know how it went on Monday evening. Also hopefully! a few piccys!!! I'll add them to 'GC Photo page' I must be myself! I must be myself! I must be myself! I must be myself! I must be myself!.... She sounds posh! I flippin aint! I WILL be me effin self! I WILL be me effin self! I WILL be me effin self! I WILL be me effin self! lol Watch this space... Gerri xxx

Thats nice Sue I know Gerri will appreciate everyone's good wishes, nice of all to take the time, but she deserves them and I wish I could be there to hold your hand Gerri, but you won't need it, they'll be at their ease in no time, if they are anything like you. Love Pat x

hi gerri ! i think that is wonderfull ! you must be soooo nervous, but eager. have fun, and i wish you all the happiness in the world. it is a lovely story, and do not forget to let us know how it works out ! sue. xxx

Nudge for Gerri to see x Pat x

Gerri Thats lovely news, i wish you both a wonderful day, may it be the first of many :-)) Yvette

I wish you the very best of luck and happiness with your sister. I may even bump into you in Hyde Park! XXBC

WOW Gerri You have every right to have all those emotions, gosh I am excited for you! Good luck babe Maz x

Gerri Wishing you lots of luck and hoping you have a lovely day. Daisy

Hi Gerri, you'll be a lot more sleepless by Monday knowing you...I wont be around to keep you compnay unfortunately... Have a great day, take each moment as it comes and enjoy every one of them. Loads of luv'N'stuff Magi

Good Luck Sweetie, have a great day c x

Wishing you all the very best Gerri, have a wonderful day. I hope that you'll all be as happy as my half-brother and me, we met for the first time 18 months ago and it feels like we've known each other all our lives. Mandy :) xx

Good Luck Gerri!!! love becx