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Hi Kylie I hope things are all well. We are all thinking of you Liz

Of course you arent a failure Kylie!!! I had panic attack when i was giving birth naturally!! I just totally didnt know HOW to breathe!!! I was more bothered about passing out than giving birth!! Please please calm down... whichever way you give birth must be a good experience for you both! Good Luck and i await the good news! Karen

Hi there Dont feel bad its is a really exciting time but everso nerveracking i had my first child last year and so it is still al fresh in my mind. She came two weeks late and came the day before they were going to induce me. All babys come in there own time. Dont wish you pregnancy away as you will be rushing around for the next few months with so many things to do for you new arrival. It has been the most rewarding year of my life and after you have given birth you feel a real scense of achivement. Think possitive.

kylie dont think your failiure because you backed out it just wasnt the right time for you to do that, its a pregnant thing im sure, i had panic attacks when pregnant with my son, had lot of emotional stress at time, hubby was acting like 5 year old, daughter was 5 and played me up terrible, result i got major stress, couldnt go out without crying , couldnt go to call box as we didnt have phone and confined space was hell, went to doctor who was fab, and gave me a community nurse, who told me how common it was, got me back out the door, and helped tons, step by step day by day, dont blame yourself, it just happens, little one will arrive when ready, keep us informed

Nudging this up so you can all see what the latest is for Kylie. Maybe she is in labour right now, or has had the babe and is in hospital still. whatever the situation, hope she is fine and back with us soon.

Kylie you aint a failure!! i too would be scared,thats one of the biggest fears i had with my own three..its your choice and your right,you wernt wrong to say No..in your shoes id of done the exact same thing. hope your ok dear?! let us know how you getting along. sending you ((((( hugs))))) and hope it goes ok and quickly for you now.xx

Kylie in no way are you a failure and when baby arrives it iwll all have been worth while. Hope she arrrives soon and your next posting willl be 'She' s Here' Take Care, Chin Up Germaine x

Oh Kylie :-( Sorry to hear you've had problems. Hang in there... we're all behind you!! love becx

HI Kylie, Don't be so hard on yourself. Giving birth, whatever way, is scary. Just keep positive and remember that this is the last Wednesday you will ever have without a child. As for c-sections, I had both of mine by elective section as b** first just doesn't work. Wouldn't have it any other way now. I was on my feet the following morning. Please don't worry about it if that's the way you have to go. Everything will be fine. Love and hugs, Christine.xx